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    Default I must be the only one?

    I am in a 5 year relationship with the same girl i lost my virginity to....so iv been with one girl my whole life and i do love her......it is highly likely i will end up marrying this girl.

    BUT ....i am an incredibly horny guy, (whats new) and ...im pretty desperate to just have sex and be pleased sexually by other women.....does that make me a bad person? i feel awful yet here i am on an escort web page. god ive even considered heading to amsterdams red light district by myself for a couple of nights! its gotten that bad!

    so....part of me REALLY just wants to have sex etc with other women and another part of me feels guilty and just awful for cheating on the only girl ive been with and am supposed to love.

    this reason and one other for not visiting escorts leads me to think i must be the only one like this. the other reason being i live in belfast on botanic/lisburn road and put off visiting an escort incase of police etc.....

    im 23 so im young and i always tell myself one day il visit an escort to fulfill my strong strong needs.....and still i havent
    so....i take it im the only one to give a shit like this yea lol?

    any advice.....anyone in a similar situation?

    do any of the escorts look down on clients who are cheating on their wives and girlfriends? or do you like that?

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    Get out now....before its too late.
    Tis many a man who fell in love with a dimple and made the mistake of marrying the whole woman..

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    i would have thought the escorts would be disappointed if punters weren't hooked up

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    Quote Originally Posted by pigsmickey View Post
    Get out now....before its too late.
    Tis many a man who fell in love with a dimple and made the mistake of marrying the whole woman..
    ive fell in love with the whole woman though. its just....one fuck my whole life?? no....i just need to fuck other women.

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    this is normal. men are programmed to want to have sex with many partners. marriage must contend with 200 million years of evolution.

    what you could do is take a break for a few years, visit the brothels and then reignite the romance with the woman you want to marry

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meursault View Post
    this is normal. men are programmed to want to have sex with many partners. marriage must contend with 200 million years of evolution.

    what you could do is take a break for a few years, visit the brothels and then reignite the romance with the woman you want to marry
    i dont think there are any brothels in belfast which is why i think independent escorts are my best bet and safest option. a brothel id prob spend a ridiculous amount.
    an escort i can fulfill my desires with a 30min to an hour 80-200 meeting.

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    I'd be slow to advise a 23 year old to start seeing escorts.... especially one about to propose to his girlfriend.

    But I can see your point too tho... tough one to call

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    Seriously, masturbate and re-evaluate your options.

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    youre doin it wrong, youre supposed to sow the wild oates before you meet the 'one' get it out of your system and settle, well thats the idea anyway. basically you settled to soon, thats life.

    as for escorts looking down on you, I lold, turkeys dont vote for christmas, its a consenting business transaction, judgement doesnt come into it

    theyre there to brown nose you not judge
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    Don't visit them, if you never start you will not have to finish, I made the mistake of starting but cant finish and I don't mean cumming. It is good at the time and the Escorts are fabulous but it can wreak your head and your pocket in the long run.
    Last edited by Dickulous Doolally; 09-03-15 at 20:45.

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