Sexy Sandy 69 (03-03-15), TonyB (04-03-15)
Sorry if it's already been said, but the word 'trafficked' has been manipulated so much, it no longer has a significant meaning. We would think (as would the general public) it meant taken against their will and forced into prostitution, but the reality is, if I am given a lift from my house to the airport (as a favour) I am being trafficked as I work in the sex trade.
This means that if a lady elects to be a sex worker in Ireland and is given support to get here, then she is trafficked, despite the fact that she is actively pursuing the career choice.
I really think the term needs to be defined for legal reasons.
Catriona (04-03-15), Davidontour (03-03-15), FetishCherry (03-03-15), ford pefect (03-03-15), Larrii (03-03-15), Prickly (04-03-15), The Equalizer (04-03-15), the traveller (04-03-15), TonyB (04-03-15)
Curvaceous Kate (03-03-15), Davidontour (03-03-15), FetishCherry (03-03-15)
Besides the urban myths of 'trafficked women' and 'gangsters' there is one more myth that should be addressed; the'police'. The girls that I have known have got on well with the police and found them to be responsive and helpful when required. It always appeared to me that if a girl was genuinely independent, honest, drug-free and over age, then the police were largely supportive. So, a big 'thumbs up' in that regard. Credit where credit is due.
Others may have had different experiences, I can only speak about what I have known. I should also say that the girls that I have known have largely worked in Dublin and experiences may be different elsewhere
"The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation" - Henry David Thoreau.
Yes I can confirm that, he is brilliant, especially due to the fact that he does as he is told and leaves the second the time is up, or when you tell him to. No being slow to get dressed, or taking the piss. He is as straight up as they come.
I can see how some girls may run over with him though, as he is very easy to talk to and has an intelligent mind. I guess some girls just want a bit of company at the end of a booking? Not really fair to judge him on that.
Davidontour (04-03-15), JAMESCORK (04-03-15)
The irony is that escorting can be a lonely profession. I have found that most escorts like to have a laugh and a chat afterwards and I enjoy their company. I get around the time issue by simply asking 'how are we doing for time?' The escort can either say 'we are ok for a while' or 'sorry, I have to finish now as someone is coming'. Any overtime for me is strictly friendship, I would never abuse the girl by trying anything physical outside the time paid for.
It is this desire on the part of escorts to communicate and talk about themselves even when they do not have great English that makes it impossible for me to believe that any of the girls that I have met could have been 'trafficked'.
Curvaceous Kate (04-03-15), Davidontour (04-03-15)
Plus a lady working under duress does not have that flexibility to talk after time, as she would be told off for wasting time (I imagine). You are right though, it can be very lonely, especially for those that do work alone. If you click with a client and have common ground, then it is up to them if they have a chat afterwards or not. As long as it is not 'expected' and as you have stated, the client is mindful of the time, then it's totally their business.
Davidontour (04-03-15)