BTW, each to their own but if I wanted to take a girl to dinner I would ask. Half the fun of a dinner date is the nervousness, getting to know someone new on a trusting level, etc. I would get none of that really with an escort and it seems from the way you describe it as going to dinner with someone way outside your league as an ego boost which I wouldn't get had I paid the date. The sex is a biological need that I need to fill at times or I would go crazy when I haven't had sex in a while.