Life is what you make it!
Unfortunately, you don't all succeed in what we would like through marriage, especially when children are born and I mean this in the most sincere way. But I believe when a woman has a child or children, her undivided love transfers to them and you (her partner) doesn't receive as much attention as previously, hence, your desire to meet escorts!!! It's not if you don't try to be affectionate to your partners (wife or girlfriend), it's just not the same as it was during your early years in your relationship! Hey, we are guys, we need love, we need attention, we need our heads to be examined!!!