How do i ask this question without hurting his feeling?

[Ladyvonteese]

How do I ask a guy I got to know and met up with about 7 or 8 times and known about 5 months what his name is? (of course he has told it to me but I forgot it)

He knows I am dyslexic but I really don’t wish to hurt his feelings as I was a little overwhelmed when I saw how happy he was to see me after he drove 60 mils to come and look after me as I have a bad cold for the past few days, I was also very surprised the way in which he greeted me as his face was so loved up and I was met with an amazing cuddle and kiss, when in fact I was going for the mate kiss on the cheek and slight hug. Loll

The poor thing didn’t get a winks sleep last night as he spent the night stocking by body and kissing my neck, back, shoulder while whispering sweet words into my ear, I mean this went on the whole night and early hours (well you get the picture). So he had to drive 60 mils back, went to work this morning without any sleep whatsoever and the poor crater had a very important meeting at 8am.

How the fuck am I going to ask him his name without wiping that loved up smile off his face!
I can’t ask his friends as he is here for work and he don’t like to hang out with his work mates and most of the time when we have met up its just us chatting and having a laugh together.

Lady Von Teese

[Naughtynatalie]

I lol'd I'm guessing the fact you have posted this on a public escort site that he will probably read it & going by the details he'll know that its him ( how embarrasing/humilating for the poor guy, although maybe thats his thing) being as sweet as he obviously is he'll probably text or call you to tell you his name

[xagerate]

If he reads this forum ,the games up.
You should have used the "I have a friend who....." line.

[naturis]

so you post it on a public forum say you hurt his feelings already ,7 or 8 times ? feck you got him good lol

[Naughtynatalie]

If he reads this forum ,the games up.
You should have used the "I have a friend who....." line.

so you post it on a public forum say you hurt his feelings already ,7 or 8 times ? feck you got him good lol

I hope he's into humiliation as he has certainly been humiliated tonight, poor fecker.

[xagerate]

I hope he's into humiliation as he has certainly been humiliated tonight, poor fecker.

GFE last night,humiliation tonight.............lot of boxes ticked in 24hrs.
He,s going through favourites like a knife through butter

[Jiberjabber]

This shows an appalling lack of respect.

[Ladyvonteese]

By the sounds of what you guys have written its clear your wifes, mothers, sisters, husbands, fathers, brothers and children go on escort chat sites and visit escorts for services too well some of us come from a lot better class of people and unlike natalie and some on this thread I have a normal life outside this business and dont need to think from the gutter with every thread someone post!

For sure not every person feels the need or wishes to see a escort or go on escort site its a personal choice, Jesus get out and get a fecking life as there is more to life than bloody escorting and lowering yourself on escort threads trying to pass off you know me so well. Loll

This guy does not go to escorts or go on such sites! He is a very nice guys who dose not need to see escorts and what I have or have not told him I do is nothing to do with you gutter people either.

Where in this thread did I say this guy was a client or has anything to do with the escort industry? And if it was a client then I would just ask him his name.

Well done natalie and the rest of you for lowering yourself not me! Now you all look like the right prats you are!

Lady Von Teese

I lol'd I'm guessing the fact you have posted this on a public escort site that he will probably read it & going by the details he'll know that its him ( how embarrasing/humilating for the poor guy, although maybe thats his thing) being as sweet as he obviously is he'll probably text or call you to tell you his name

If he reads this forum ,the games up.
You should have used the "I have a friend who....." line.

so you post it on a public forum say you hurt his feelings already ,7 or 8 times ? feck you got him good lol

I hope he's into humiliation as he has certainly been humiliated tonight, poor fecker.

GFE last night,humiliation tonight.............lot of boxes ticked in 24hrs.
He,s going through favourites like a knife through butter

This shows an appalling lack of respect.

Simple everyone lies so catch him out on a small lie and accuse him of lying about his name as well- probably has given wrong name anyway - attack is best form of defence

ah well I guess he's getting his monies worth, all services covered at no extra cost

some stories are great touts others are just ............. disrespectful.

Discretion is obviously not a concern here when it comes to clients.

Well LVT my old 'nothing to lose because I just ca't remember her fecking name' tactic for finding out a girl's name at a party who I'd already forgotten because I was too pissec or stoned or both was to whisper in her ear during the Slow Set, just after a tongue sandwich ideally (Happy Days!) "How DO you pronounce your name again?". If she said "Anjah-lee-ka", result! If she said "Mary" I'd just laugh it off & say something like "Of course, ta for reminding me, I just love exotic names like that!". Usually that would get a laugh & a positive result too with no offence caused. So I suggest that just after you have shared a pleasant intimate moment & he is putty in your hands (well you know what I mean) just ask him "Darling how DO you pronounce your name again?"

Certainly in this instance but as I'm sure you know not all escorts are the same. Must of us show as much respect for clients confidentiality & their self respect as we do for our own.
I take most posts on these forums with a pinch of salt & tbh this guy may or may not exist. I've known many stories to be posted to make the escort look exciting & enticing & on the most part it will never be known until a time like this were it is clearly unsavoury & doesnt work in the desired way. Anyway this is all just conjecture on my part & the fact I am bored & cant sleep. Otherwise I probably wouldnt have responded to such a post. As a tout is what it is & not really my business or even the way that I conduct my business. For me if it was a genuine concern I would have posted privately to other escorts for advise.

[joggon]

everybody is wrong except you LVT ?

[Naughtynatalie]

I lol'd again

& also only read the first few sentences of your essay.
I have an amazing life outside this business with lots of real friends & family & if I have a real problem or query I ask those friends/family in my real life, I dont bring my personal life to an escort website.

I shall end my post here because I have neither the time nor inclination to continue your latest tout.

Actually I will add if you know the guy from your personal life & not as a client, having met him 7/8 times yet dont know his name. REALLY?
I'd go to the doctors incase your suffering from Alzheimers or serious ignorance.