I guess the risk and atmosphere etc. might be some other guys thing, it's just not mine... I'm a very shy nervous creature who is still learning.
Here is the thing tho, after Christmas I asked several girls if they shared an apartment with another girl as I had a few bad experiences before and they sounded insulted and wanted to know why I'd need to know such a thing after me explaining with great patience through the language barrier as much my fault as they could often speak better English than I could there language about the bad experiences I had... Glad to say the last few girls have been great fun so I don't plan on letting it put me off but I'll say no from now on to girls that share