Quote Originally Posted by hamish View Post
I wouldn't so much either if I could provide one, if your new you just can't so does that mean you won't be seen. you got good reviews and a good poster on here with lots of friends both male and female.
Even the girls I have seen are not here anymore and were not even registered on here to begin with.
It's makes it difficult for everyone but I do realise everyone has to be careful and even more careful in the times ahead
In the situation where you cannot provide a reference you need to be nice and polite. Don't go asking a load of questions that are already on her profile. That can really piss off the ladies. Also you can pm some of the other lads here to ask about ladies they have visited. They may or may not reply but if they don't what have you lost.... nothing.
Also got to remember that at the moment alot of ladies dont ask for referrals so plenty of time before if and when that situation may arise on a more widespread basis.