Ladies asking for a referral!!

[NoBrain2]

I'd only be speculating as I'm no escort but I'd assume if a lady has her suspicions about a client she asks for a reference, if he gives the name of a lady she knows she'll text her with his number, has he been to see you, is he genuine and hope that she gets back to him before the appointed meeting time..

I assumed thats how it works now although never been asked for one, wouldnt have a problem with it. Only problem would be if you were using multiple numbers, punting sims etc, might get a bit confusing then

[jamie25]

No, because some idiots think that if they use the name of a long term member, one that has a good few references under his belt they will get special treatment, maybe even a discount with the promise of a positive review.

Alas this practice use to work with new ladies trying to make a good name for themselves. Unfortunately even some of the established guys started to use this pressure tactic hence why the trusted reviewer badge was abolished.

That is why i would not tell them mine even if I was on here 10 years with loads of posts and so on and I dont believe the Escorts really care about that but no need to add extra pressure on them, better to be in a relaxed atmosphere I think

[ber]

I have no problem with the concept of referrals, but my only concern is that if it was done on a large scale it would become
unworkable, unless the way escorts were booked changed totally. let me outline my reasons.
Scenario, i pick an escort ring for an appointment in say an hour, she asks me for a reference i give her an escorts name,
she says she will text me back if she gets verification everything fine so far. First problem there is no point in my going to the
general area where the escort is unless i have verification got, so if i am any distance away i may not get there by the appointed time. Second problem the escort has to go find the escorts profile get the number and ring or txt her.What are the
odds she wont get through or may not get a reply for 30 mins or an hr even if the lady has an appointment herself or she
may not be working so not answering her phone atall. So is that an hr of everyones time wasted?
Next problem if it was used widely the more popular ladys and the ones with a higher profile will be getting several txts and calls everyday as no doubt clients will use them as references more regularly so it will be a nuisance for them also.
It also means that all the ladys will have to store all the clients numbers as i can see no other way in which they can identify
them.If a client changes his number what then?
The referral system is popular in the higher end of escorting in the US but that is either through high class agencys who would
have client lists or else do a background check. Any new client would not get a short notice booking until vetted.
Unless u were a regular client u would probably have to book a minimum of 12 maybe 24 hrs ahead not like guys here want
15 to 30 mins.
What i am saying basically for a refferal system to be succesful on a large scale the whole way in which booking are taken
would have to change. Booking would have to be done much further in advance to allow for checks and balances.
I actually would love that to be the case as i would much rather book an appointment a day or two in advance but most
escorts dont want to hear of it and wont confirm until 30 mins or so in advance(i know with many this is for time waster reasons).
For it to have any hope of working both clients and escorts would have to get much more organised. It would mean escorts
would be working more defined hours as they would have prebooking to contend with wheras now if they want a day off or a few hrs they just have to turn of their phone and thats it wheras with the other system alot of flexibilty would go.

[anon361]

I have no problem with the concept of referrals, but my only concern is that if it was done on a large scale it would become
unworkable, unless the way escorts were booked changed totally. let me outline my reasons.
Scenario, i pick an escort ring for an appointment in say an hour, she asks me for a reference i give her an escorts name,
she says she will text me back if she gets verification everything fine so far. First problem there is no point in my going to the
general area where the escort is unless i have verification got, so if i am any distance away i may not get there by the appointed time. Second problem the escort has to go find the escorts profile get the number and ring or txt her.What are the
odds she wont get through or may not get a reply for 30 mins or an hr even if the lady has an appointment herself or she
may not be working so not answering her phone atall. So is that an hr of everyones time wasted?
Next problem if it was used widely the more popular ladys and the ones with a higher profile will be getting several txts and calls everyday as no doubt clients will use them as references more regularly so it will be a nuisance for them also.
It also means that all the ladys will have to store all the clients numbers as i can see no other way in which they can identify
them.If a client changes his number what then?
The referral system is popular in the higher end of escorting in the US but that is either through high class agencys who would
have client lists or else do a background check. Any new client would not get a short notice booking until vetted.
Unless u were a regular client u would probably have to book a minimum of 12 maybe 24 hrs ahead not like guys here want
15 to 30 mins.
What i am saying basically for a refferal system to be succesful on a large scale the whole way in which booking are taken
would have to change. Booking would have to be done much further in advance to allow for checks and balances.
I actually would love that to be the case as i would much rather book an appointment a day or two in advance but most
escorts dont want to hear of it and wont confirm until 30 mins or so in advance(i know with many this is for time waster reasons).
For it to have any hope of working both clients and escorts would have to get much more organised. It would mean escorts
would be working more defined hours as they would have prebooking to contend with wheras now if they want a day off or a few hrs they just have to turn of their phone and thats it wheras with the other system alot of flexibilty would go.

To be honest Ber, I think how such a system would work or does work really isn't any of our business, just that should a lady choose to implement such a system we as clients should see no reason not to comply with her request and should a client object and refuse he should still respect the ladies decision and move on to another lady of his choice without the need to be an asshole about it.

[JAMESCORK]

No, because some idiots think that if they use the name of a long term member, one that has a good few references under his belt they will get special treatment, maybe even a discount with the promise of a positive review.

Alas this practice use to work with new ladies trying to make a good name for themselves. Unfortunately even some of the established guys started to use this pressure tactic hence why the trusted reviewer badge was abolished.

Did ya see the Charlie Haughey series tonight.... great stuff eh?...

[anon361]

Did ya see the Charlie Haughey series tonight.... great stuff eh?...

Missed it, any good?

[ber]

[QUOTE=anon361;1486851]To be honest Ber, I think how such a system would work or does work really isn't any of our business, just that should a lady choose to implement such a system we as clients should see no reason not to comply with her request and should a client object and refuse he should still respect the ladies decision and move on to another lady of his choice without the need to be an asshole about it.[/

As i have already said ive no problem with the concept atall but if i give a reference so that i can organise myself i willl need to know when im likely to be cleared for that appointment, will i be contacted back in 10 minutes an hr 2 hrs?
Escorts have schedules but so do clients. U have often said ureself that u book short notice appointments so with a refferal
system it will be very hit and miss if they will be practical or not. How the lady works it from her end is none of my buisness
but how it will affect me at my end is

[JAMESCORK]

Missed it, any good?

You'd like it...

[anon361]

To be honest Ber, I think how such a system would work or does work really isn't any of our business, just that should a lady choose to implement such a system we as clients should see no reason not to comply with her request and should a client object and refuse he should still respect the ladies decision and move on to another lady of his choice without the need to be an asshole about it.

As i have already said ive no problem with the concept atall but if i give a reference so that i can organise myself i willl need to know when im likely to be cleared for that appointment, will i be contacted back in 10 minutes an hr 2 hrs?
Escorts have schedules but so do clients. U have often said ureself that u book short notice appointments so with a refferal
system it will be very hit and miss if they will be practical or not. How the lady works it from her end is none of my buisness
but how it will affect me at my end is

I agree on that level but change is coming and not just the site layout, how it effects us all we'll have to just wait and see..

[anon361]

You'd like it...

He liked the sound of his own voice too