Ladies asking for a referral!!

[Irish Leigha]

I'm sure they didn't, mine isn't the only username that has been used and I'm sure it won't be last nor will it not be used in the future. I let ladies judge me by who I am, not what I call myself on the boards.

Very good point. It's a pet hate of mine when forum members use their names in an attempt to gain 'extra special treatment or

attempt to overstay their arranged time' just because they are regular posters on the boards. So pathetic and annoying. Non

members money is just the same as members money at the end of the day!! In my personal opinion, it's pathetic and quite

sad .

But back on topic, I find the referral system a sensible and useful method of screening.

[ber]

You think too much

Would it be better if i went around making appointments i didnt honour and waste ladys time, i value the ladys time but i
also value my own quite alot ,all i would ask for is a bit of clarity

[anon361]

Very good point. It's a pet hate of mine when forum members use their names in an attempt to gain 'extra special treatment or

attempt to overstay their arranged time' just because they are regular posters on the boards. So pathetic and annoying. Non

members money is just the same as members money at the end of the day!! In my personal opinion, it's pathetic and quite

sad .

All to often guys think just because they are themselves established clients they deserve extra special treatment, gobshites that should be banned, unfortunately a lot hide behind the very guise they use and say it wasn't me

[simon2280]

We get it wrong sometimes. because we are human and I am no different. Escorts provide a Service, whatever their Gender and are subject to decision making in very different circumstances to us as Clients. This subject is an old chestnut for discussion and nothing we say here is going to change it,

[Genie in a Bottle]

Some Escorts like to take the mickey out of clients who they think are time wasters and there are different forms of time wasting too lets not forget

[anon361]

Some Escorts like to take the mickey out of clients who they think are time wasters and there are different forms of time wasting too lets not forget

I appreciate that but at the same time you cannot expect a lady to continually converse with a guy on the off chance he will eventually meet her as if she is obliged to entertain a form of courtship before the meet. That in itself is another form of timewasting as you've pointed out.

[Prickly]

The only problem I have about references is whom to ask to provide one for me. It means you have to get agreement in advance or you're giving names in hope that they're; advertising,will answer their phone and aren't in a bad mood. Not to mention the fact that they might not be impressed by what they see as extra work and loss of business.
If it helps with safety and discretion then I'm all for it, but it needs to be workable and consistent.
And what's the point of the reference system on here?

[Red79]

The only problem I have about references is whom to ask to provide one for me. It means you have to get agreement in advance or you're giving names in hope that they're; advertising,will answer their phone and aren't in a bad mood. Not to mention the fact that they might not be impressed by what they see as extra work and loss of business.
If it helps with safety and discretion then I'm all for it, but it needs to be workable and consistent.
And what's the point of the reference system on here?

Come June the whole thing will need re-thought. If we as clients are to be reviewed then it will need to be something all escorts agree to and go along with, or it will be useless.

[SexyEliza]

This subject seems to be causing a stir with a few. I really don't know what the big deal is. Some guys need to remember that these ladies and not just the ones that ask for a reference / referral work under their own rules, not how a client perceives how they should work for him.

If the lady feels she would like extra security in the knowledge that the person ringing them is a genuine client and has seen other ladies then so be it. Isn't it a sign that she has the lights switched on and doesn't want to get caught out by a timewaster / reporter / idiot. It's not going to be fool proof but at least it's better than not asking and taking a chance of a no show.

Maybe she doesn't want to see guys that has never been with an escort before and if he gives a name then at least she knows he has (I say that loosely), that's HER decision.

Will it work every time, probably not, will it cut down on the assholes, probably will, same goes for will it alienate the odd genuine client, maybe it will but lads, you need to remember, this is all her decision and I'm sure she has weighed the pros and cons herself.

I've seen a mention of the reference system on the boards, this has nothing to do with that. It's a more personal spot check.
Before all these agencies came along this was a far more practiced system. Alas maybe guys have got so use to calling agency girls that don't really have a choice on who they see and as clients know no better.

I for one would be more than happy to give a lady that sort of information, at least then I as a client have a good sense of what type of lady I am going to see and it more than reassures me of her authenticity.

It is works in both ways and it is and it will be more safe .
For sure I will not see a guy without a ref.!
( if my intuition tells my it's ok,
maybe I can make an compromise
>maybe> )
So, GUYS take a reference before to meet a lady!
You'll be appreciated!
I think galz will need also in the next future with this new law,
OMG!!! Too complicated ....

[Khujo]

Come June the whole thing will need re-thought. If we as clients are to be reviewed then it will need to be something all escorts agree to and go along with, or it will be useless.

Come June, most clients will be so paranoid that the last thing that they'll want to hear is an escorting asking them a bunch of questions over the phone. I can see the tables turn with alot more clients hanging up on escorts mid sentence, but without the bragging