This new law -------- I will welcome it in a way

[AndyTowers]

Ya we all can be selfish,you ask people not to beat you up and I,m just giving the reason why they are, that,s all.

Its okay, I understand

[ber]

After reading all the negative feedback about this new law coming in I have decided to tell what I think, there is some positives here too,
I don’t believe this new law will be a bad thing really, not for me anyway,
I’m just an ordinary guy in my late twenties with a good job and a nice girlfriend.
I started punting about 2 1/2 years ago and really enjoy it but that was the problem I enjoyed it just too much. I met my current girlfriend about 18 months ago and although I slowed down with the visits to the escorts I didn’t stop, as we all know its very addictive.
I always said to myself over and over that I would stop and that this one would be my last even I wouldn’t travel very far anymore to meet them but problem was when a very attractive escort would come to my town I would eventually give in and give some excuse and meet her and again have a good time once more.
I care a lot for my girlfriend and feel like crap so this new law coming could be the kick up the backside I need to finally give it up for good, At times too it does get in the way of important things and you would just drop all and off you go and money that probably I should be spending on the home, I did not, I didn’t like the sneaking about or the lying to someone I care very much for now so when this new Law is passed (It will make me concentrate on whats really important and devote the time to those I love..) that will be me finished. Anyone else feel the same.

To be honest all i think u are doing here is what the classic addict will always do, put off what i can do today until tomorrow,
u obviously feel guilty about cheating on ure girlfriend and u are using the excuse of the new law to punt for the next six months with less guilt by setting a date when u will stop. Ure just like the alcholic that will stop drinking tomorrow, but
remember tomorrow never comes. When the new law comes into being u may stop for a while or u may just find another excuse to postpone, either way once u get any excuse be it an argument with ure girlfriend etc u will end up in the arms of an escort again. Until u own up to ureself what u are doing u wont stop of that i am certain and i dont think ure ready to do that yet

[AndyTowers]

Seriously? So no effect on our lives at all? The fact that we are going to be in more danger? The fact that we could find ourselves kicked out of our homes, even if we don't work from the property? The fact that once one of our clients has been fined we will be linked to them and likely be avoided or worse still named? Sex Workers sharing will still be working illegally, so pressure is added to them. Street work will still be illegal etc.

We could also be asked to give evidence against our clients in court if they refuse to pay the fine. It will be almost impossible to have any privacy and it is possible that Joe Bloggs is encouraged to report us, which will make working impossible without putting our clients at risk.

I may be English, but I don't want to work there. My family are there and I couldn't cope with the lies and the deceit or the worry that someone may 'out' me, as I don't think my Mum could cope and I certainly wouldn't want her subjected to the stigma attached with association. Ireland suits me, as It's like being home with less of the worry. I'm not sure there is any other Country I would want to work in, plus it may interfere with my studies, which I've got a couple of years left to go with, so I'd rather continue with getting my qualification if that is all the same with you?

Lastly, I may be okay and I personally maybe able to ride the storm, as my situation allows it, but others are not in the same situation and sometimes you have to look beyond yourself and how things change your own life.

Okay but this is about me, I need to get things back on track and look after the people I love, As I said before I may be selfish here but who isn't when it comes to looking out for the people you care about, you have a son I believe and you do what is best for him, you put him first, business comes second to that always.
You see due to the nature of my job, it would be untenable for me to continue at it if I was unlucky enough to be caught not to mention the embarrassment of it all for me and my family and I'm kind of fed up with all the lies and sneaking about to be honest.Its not fair on them.
I have met you before in the past and you are great at what you do and know you would never be out of work as good escorts will always get by, maybe have to make some sacrifices but will be okay and wish you the best of luck.

[Rookielad1]

What is the law?

[Nationwide]

New law coming is a concern for both escort&client.It's going to be devastating for escorts I predict,I would be surprised if in 12 months there is half the amount of escort working here,the new law is going to have men very nervous,if I was the garda policing this,I would be staking out clients coming from the top reviewed escorts...like fishing salmon in a barell.
I wish I could be more optimistic but I just think this law is going to be the end of great looking girls and good times.

[zoozoozoo]

Okay but this is about me, I need to get things back on track and look after the people I love, As I said before I may be selfish here but who isn't when it comes to looking out for the people you care about, you have a son I believe and you do what is best for him, you put him first, business comes second to that always.
You see due to the nature of my job, it would be untenable for me to continue at it if I was unlucky enough to be caught not to mention the embarrassment of it all for me and my family and I'm kind of fed up with all the lies and sneaking about to be honest.Its not fair on them.
I have met you before in the past and you are great at what you do and know you would never be out of work as good escorts will always get by, maybe have to make some sacrifices but will be okay and wish you the best of luck.

For someone who has just joined and with 8 posts you seem to know a lot about kate !!

[AndyTowers]

To be honest all i think u are doing here is what the classic addict will always do, put off what i can do today until tomorrow,
u obviously feel guilty about cheating on ure girlfriend and u are using the excuse of the new law to punt for the next six months with less guilt by setting a date when u will stop. Ure just like the alcholic that will stop drinking tomorrow, but
remember tomorrow never comes. When the new law comes into being u may stop for a while or u may just find another excuse to postpone, either way once u get any excuse be it an argument with ure girlfriend etc u will end up in the arms of an escort again. Until u own up to ureself what u are doing u wont stop of that i am certain and i dont think ure ready to do that yet

I can only try and admit I have done not bad and have cut down the visits and will no longer travel long journeys to meet Escorts no matter how attractive they are..
I use to smoke and every new year would try to kick the habit, lasted at most about 2 weeks.
When the no smoking in public places law came in, I hated the idea of having to go outside to smoke in the freezing cold and rain and said right, I'm giving these smokes up for good and succeeded in doing so.

[AndyTowers]

For someone who has just joined and with 8 posts you seem to know a lot about kate !!

Not that much really but have always come on here to look at what Escorts were now in my area and to read up on things that interested me.

[KevinACE]

how can they prove anything happened, unless you are caught up in a raid with trousers around ankles

[Khujo]

Can't really sympathise with you bud as you already have a girlfriend. Think about us poor single bastards for a second! It's going to be a bitter pill to swallow going from meeting up with beautiful models for amazing sex to chasing Plain Jane & Co. around Coppers and probably still not getting any at the end of the night