Feeling used!

[Ladyvonteese]

You can only speak from your own experiences as some of us lady offer a REAL gfe and enjoy the company of those who we spend time with. And if we dont they we dont see them again.

But some get confused what they are paying us for such as re-acting a 8 hour porn movie in half a hour. Not my cuppa tea personally, but each to their own.

Newsflash.....All escorts only want your money.
It is the ones you make you believe they want you regardless of your money that you should add to your favourites.

Escorts are actresses after all

When? Loll

I wanna spread the news
That if it feels this good being used
You just keep on using me
Until you use me up

Bill Withers

Happy hunting guys
Lady Von Teese

[mellors]

Just a hypothetical question!

Has an escort/client ever made you feel used?
How did you deal with the situation?

Yes...a certain English lady...in any other circumstances apart from an appointment I could of charged her with GBH . I was used and abused !

I deal with it, by mentioning it every time I see her...she goes all coy and blushes !

[jamieboyo]

How does an escort make a client feel used?

I take for granted men come to me to be my toys.
If they are very good it is a 2 player game.
Sometimes it is 1 player and I do all the teasing and pleasing which is fine and dandy as he pays.

I do not get how a client would feel used unless he is unable to communicate what he wants and leaves feeling he got nothing he wanted.

"All she wanted was my money" does that mean you were in and out double quick and left unsatisfied?

Hi Josephine,
It was a hypothetical question honestly, and I've been fortunate enough not to really experience the "all she wanted was my money" type feelings...............but, -let's be honest.......If you make a poor choice those type feelings are possible.

It's all you have to do is read some of the reviews left for certain girls. I have seen several times statements such as "As soon as she took my money, her attitude changed, and she just wanted me out the door.".....or "I paid for 1 hour, but was in and out in 10 minutes".....How do those guys feel I wonder!

Maybe it is down to communication as you said, but surely if that's the case the lady has to take a certain amount of blame, as she should know what the client wants, before the appointment takes place at all!!

What do you think?

[69patrick69]

Just a hypothetical question!

Has an escort/client ever made you feel used?
How did you deal with the situation?

Yes I have been used and abused by a beautiful young lady for her own sexual gratification.

how did I deal with it, I loved every fuckin moment of it.

[Ladyvonteese]

And maybe why such girls in this business have to take loans of the new clients they do get the chance to meet up with honey.

All the best
Lady Von Teese

Yes knowing before meeting is best.
I think most people insist in a phone call before meeting.
I have no idea why people are in and out in 10 mins.
If an hour is booked a massage should fill in any time to make up the hour.
An hour should be an easy length of time to fill.
Definitely a change of attitude and short time would make any person feel used.

I don't really look at reviews I cant imagine any long term Escorts doing that word would go round and they would have no business.

[JAMESCORK]

Hi Josephine,
It was a hypothetical question honestly, and I've been fortunate enough not to really experience the "all she wanted was my money" type feelings...............but, -let's be honest.......If you make a poor choice those type feelings are possible.

It's all you have to do is read some of the reviews left for certain girls. I have seen several times statements such as "As soon as she took my money, her attitude changed, and she just wanted me out the door.".....or "I paid for 1 hour, but was in and out in 10 minutes".....How do those guys feel I wonder!

Maybe it is down to communication as you said, but surely if that's the case the lady has to take a certain amount of blame, as she should know what the client wants, before the appointment takes place at all!!

What do you think?

Jamie... I'm pissed... but I think I can type...

As you have said... "Lets be honest"... Well, LETS be honest. If Jamie has a great experience with a lovely girl and James has a shite one... there are probably several reasons.... Firstly, Jamie was clean, courteous and presentable. Secondly he was on time and gave no hassle... But thirdly, Jamie was a fairly handsome man that made her job that much easier.... ... They are only human after all....


Now as for feeling used.... Oh yeah... I know when I'm being used... Sometimes I allow it cos... Im grand where I am.. .. Others?.... bye bye....

Best defence....... Use back!

Just don't be a fuckin eegit...

[Westsidex]

Just a hypothetical question!

Has an escort/client ever made you feel used?
How did you deal with the situation?

Nope. I satisfy my ego in other ways. Feeling used is nothing only a weakness due to a bruised ego.

nothing more,
Westside.

[Westsidex]

You can only speak from your own experiences as some of us lady offer a REAL gfe and enjoy the company of those who we spend time with.

Biggest load of bs I read since I started on the site. You really expect a person with a brain to believe this?

plz,
Westside.

[amylove69]

I call it empty balls syndrome lots of guys get that feeling after but i do love emptying them balls

[samlad]

Everyone is used in this industry, the clients use escorts for their sexual gratification, reassurance and ego boost and the escorts use their clients for money, and on those rare occasions, also sexual gratification.

Obviously there is some deep, guilty feeling afterwards here. If you feel 'used' after an encounter, you should probably take up watercolour painting or something as an alternative stress relief.