Lend n Escort Money

[Curvaceous Kate]

I see several very popular Escorts in England was caught for falsely claiming benefits including housing benefit amounting to nearly 40k stg and also for not declaring.

I'm not sure of the cases that you are referring to, as I never heard of them, but I'm sure there are plenty of self employed people cooking the books. As I said, it's about taking each person as an individual and not judging them based on their job.

One more point. Several popular Escorts in England does not account for the 1000's that work there. Some will be declaring and some won't. You can't judge all in the same way.

Otherwise I could say that all Taxi drivers are scammers and will charge you more than they should, as I have had one or two that have done that to me. That isn't fair on the ones that get you to your destination with no fuss and at a good rate though, so I can't really say that, as it's not true.

[hunterhilman]

I'm not sure of the cases that you are referring to, as I never heard of them, but I'm sure there are plenty of self employed people cooking the books. As I said, it's about taking each person as an individual and not judging them based on their job.

One more point. Several popular Escorts in England does not account for the 1000's that work there. Some will be declaring and some won't. You can't judge all in the same way.

Otherwise I could say that all Taxi drivers are scammers and will charge you more than they should, as I have had one or two that have done that to me. That isn't fair on the ones that get you to your destination with no fuss and at a good rate though, so I can't really say that, as it's not true.

I was really surprised too as these are popular pornstars who escort in their spare time, hold gang bangs etc and are making alot of money, I do have the links. Its not about their profession, its that these ladies are well know by many as they are advertising on the UK's biggest advertising website with videos etc showing their faces, did they really expect to get away with it, i'm surprised they got away with it for so long.

[wanted the best 69]

what is refreshing is the fact of so many people putting their hands up and admitting having been taken..........well I too got caught by a well known escort ,what makes me wonder how many more guys have got taken in?
the advice is do not.............

[Clueless]

This thread is starting to look like a confession box !!!

If you need to seriously ask the question I think you instinctively know what the answer is.

Don't try to buy what you can't afford

I have sinned and I have been sinned against and done my penance!

[Uoma Italiano]

It's something I have been asked to do on a number of occasions with a lady I become particularly close with but I've always steered clear of mixing business with Pleasure

[bigmango]

All contributions to this thread are welcome & appreciated…….even if they are off thread….as many are……..

It was never my intention to insinuate that escorts are any worse at meeting their commitments than non-escorts.
I have met (& will meet again) some kind, lovely & wonderful people who just happen to be escorts.

I have never lent money that I cannot afford to lose…. However I do believe you should help people out if you can.
Life repays you in many ways that you least expect..

It was not my intention to elaborate further (other than my opening post) but in view of the number of side issues raised / off thread posts
I will explain what actually happened (as I do not believe I was being conned) ………….

Over a year ago I was with Escort B and while we were talking about the recession etc. she mentioned that she was sharing with Escort A who was having a bad time here because she did not like escorting & was not doing well at it. I said that Escort A should go home. Escort B said she did not have the money so I asked to see/talk to Escort A and she said she would return home to Eastern Europe if she had the money. So I gave Escort A her fare home to Eastern Europe. I made it clear that the money was given to her on the basis that if she returned to Ireland she was to refund me the fare otherwise it was a gift. Subsequently learned that she did return to Ireland for a short while………but I never heard from her.

Had a conversation with Escort B about five weeks later and she said that Escort A had left owing her over €1,000 and that she was way behind with the rent. I asked how much more she needed to make up the balance on the rent and lent her that amount.I have been partially paid in kind but the last time I made contact she said that if we met up I would have to pay ….which I did.

I have found it very difficult to contact her since then but she is currently working & regularly posts on the Forum here.

For the record she is not someone that I have reviewed or has contributed to this thread.

[sixfourblond]

All contributions to this thread are welcome & appreciated…….even if they are off thread….as many are……..

It was never my intention to insinuate that escorts are any worse at meeting their commitments than non-escorts.
I have met (& will meet again) some kind, lovely & wonderful people who just happen to be escorts.

I have never lent money that I cannot afford to lose…. However I do believe you should help people out if you can.
Life repays you in many ways that you least expect..

It was not my intention to elaborate further (other than my opening post) but in view of the number of side issues raised / off thread posts
I will explain what actually happened (as I do not believe I was being conned) ………….

Over a year ago I was with Escort B and while we were talking about the recession etc. she mentioned that she was sharing with Escort A who was having a bad time here because she did not like escorting & was not doing well at it. I said that Escort A should go home. Escort B said she did not have the money so I asked to see/talk to Escort A and she said she would return home to Eastern Europe if she had the money. So I gave Escort A her fare home to Eastern Europe. I made it clear that the money was given to her on the basis that if she returned to Ireland she was to refund me the fare otherwise it was a gift. Subsequently learned that she did return to Ireland for a short while………but I never heard from her.

Had a conversation with Escort B about five weeks later and she said that Escort A had left owing her over €1,000 and that she was way behind with the rent. I asked how much more she needed to make up the balance on the rent and lent her that amount.I have been partially paid in kind but the last time I made contact she said that if we met up I would have to pay ….which I did.

I have found it very difficult to contact her since then but she is currently working & regularly posts on the Forum here.

For the record she is not someone that I have reviewed or has contributed to this thread.

That's almost unbelievable.

[willie wacker]

All contributions to this thread are welcome & appreciated…….even if they are off thread….as many are……..

It was never my intention to insinuate that escorts are any worse at meeting their commitments than non-escorts.
I have met (& will meet again) some kind, lovely & wonderful people who just happen to be escorts.

I have never lent money that I cannot afford to lose…. However I do believe you should help people out if you can.
Life repays you in many ways that you least expect..

It was not my intention to elaborate further (other than my opening post) but in view of the number of side issues raised / off thread posts
I will explain what actually happened (as I do not believe I was being conned) ………….

Over a year ago I was with Escort B and while we were talking about the recession etc. she mentioned that she was sharing with Escort A who was having a bad time here because she did not like escorting & was not doing well at it. I said that Escort A should go home. Escort B said she did not have the money so I asked to see/talk to Escort A and she said she would return home to Eastern Europe if she had the money. So I gave Escort A her fare home to Eastern Europe. I made it clear that the money was given to her on the basis that if she returned to Ireland she was to refund me the fare otherwise it was a gift. Subsequently learned that she did return to Ireland for a short while………but I never heard from her.

Had a conversation with Escort B about five weeks later and she said that Escort A had left owing her over €1,000 and that she was way behind with the rent. I asked how much more she needed to make up the balance on the rent and lent her that amount.I have been partially paid in kind but the last time I made contact she said that if we met up I would have to pay ….which I did.

I have found it very difficult to contact her since then but she is currently working & regularly posts on the Forum here.

For the record she is not someone that I have reviewed or has contributed to this thread.

Well all of these threads often have a life of their own but anyway
I do believe you were conned to a certain extent by both really,
Escort A by coming back again, where she get the money to come back? conned someone esle?
Escort B by looking for a loan and partially paying back, she could have run up a tab for you on how many hours of her time for you.
Well that,s what I believe and is only my opinion

[sibbald]

Hi,

But would it be possible to make clear to the girl that you're paying for services in advance. In that way the girl can get cash for her problem and the client will not be ripped off..

[Larrii]

Hi,

But would it be possible to make clear to the girl that you're paying for services in advance. In that way the girl can get cash for her problem and the client will not be ripped off..

No, because if she does a runner the day after, you have no way of collecting. If you're in the habit of giving money to sexy ladies in hopes of a nice time way in the future, then OK.

In the past I've offered to pawn my zimmer frame, and "lend" the money to desperate ladies, provided they helped me down the street. There were no takers, who'd want to be stuck with me