Escorts Who" Don't do Black Men "

[roverwild]

I agree that you cannot blatantly call the girl racist.

Someone is not racist just because one doesn't want to have sex with someone. If I find Michelle Obama unattractive am I racist?

Not finding any one particular black woman attractive enough to have sex with is one thing. Refusing to have sex with any black woman just because she is black, that's something else.

[Kendra]

Tino.. I have read the whole thread an see you to be a very respectful and was feeling a little rejected at having your color used to refuse a booking.
The girls are intitled to refuse a booking for whatever reason they see fit, it's a few seconds that we have to decide if we feel comfortable accepting a booking or not.
You have 3 great reviews so Maybe you should choose girls by making contact by pm and they can view your profile and see that you are a genuine client.

This, exactly this. As I said, save your money for someone who will see you Tino.

[Mickey O leary]

These things happen all the time, everywhere, Tino you have seen a few ladies with no problems, left good reviews, move on and enjoy your next meetings.

[xagerate]

Some interesting points being made. I'm glad it's clearing up that I did not call Kendra a racist.

Some are saying - move on, why this thread, mountains/molehill etc. I've said something similar myself indeed. but lets not lose sight of the human cost in this - a punter was refused a service based only on the fact that he's black. how do you think that poor guy feels? It's isn't right. It's racist. It's wrong. It needs to be challenged.

Also, when did the sex industry gain an exemption from the laws of the land? http://www.culturewise.ie/equal-chec...tion_in_ie.php

It couldn't be just the ladies preference so?
It has to be racism because it is the easy bandwagon to jump onto .

You tell me what kind of lady you have a preference for ....and trust me to make the booking ............If you chose a tall ,blonde ,mid twenties ,size 6 ,but I booked you a short ,overweight,brunette 50 year old would you go through with the booking and cast aside your own preferences?

No bleedin way you would

[Kendra]

Not finding any one particular black woman attractive enough to have sex with is one thing. Refusing to have sex with any black woman just because she is black, that's something else.

Just to be clear, so if one isn't attracted to other races or a certain race in particular......does that mean that person is racist?

Ok I must be racist then as I've only ever dated and been naturally attracted to white men.

That's it, it's confirmed everyone. I AM A RACIST......according to this guy

[Dipshit]

1st of this thread should be deleted for the simple fact that a booking never occured or took place, You phoned the escort and she turned you down.

2nd you have named and shamed a escort on the boards for doing nothing wrong.

And to those that are saying she is racist, wise the fuck up, How the hell do you know what she is.

Whether its racim should not even come into it, since rules have been broken with the creation of this thread imo.

[roverwild]

I give up on you......fuckwit!

Your one of these guys who should NEVER see an escort because you don't quite understand how it all works and if you don't get your own way, you clearly get very defensive by throwing around harsh accusations.

I certainly wouldn't want to be alone in a room with you.

And yet I've been respectful enough to try to engage in debate with calling people trolls, fuckwits, morons, looking for a fight......

Kendra, you'll never get the chance to be alone in a room with me. I don't think you're racist, just a deeply unpleasant individual who does not want her opinion or perception of the world challenged - even when that perception is about something as deeply obnoxious as racism.

[gonzo76]

I take your point man, but where is the line drawn? If I'm not sexually attracted to black women, does that mean I'm racist?

I'm not sexually attracted to men either - does that make me homophobic?

One very lovely and very wise lady I met when I started punting said to me at the end of our session "you're a sweetheart, you I will allow to come back again. Not everyone gets invited back."

It may be a job, a source of income etc, but if you don't enjoy your work, or have any reason to be unduly stress or concerned, then I think that's a pretty understandable position for the lady to take.

I would say though, to save time it would be best to mention any exclusions on her profile.

True .... It's also good to learn from experiences, and to all those " I'm not racist ......" it's not a vanilla, hold you hands and lets sing world is a world filled with Xenophobia and racism in different degrees it's the little things that are the problem not the big, the big get a nice big label the little slip through unnoticed .

[Jiberjabber]

At the risk of being confrontational, I can and I have. And I'll do it again:

She's a racist. Any girl who refuses service based only on skin colour is a racist.

But, let's ask the people directly impacted by this - Tino, any other black punters who wish to comment - was this a racist incident?

Oh - I'm separating the circumstances from the action. There's plenty of ways that bad behaviour can be justified and excused away......

I can't argue a standard left-wing argument here because it's one of the places I break rank with the 'ideal vs reality' fantasy.

To expect somebody to be comfortable in an intimate situation with things relating to negative personal experience is what you condone in this statement, consciously or otherwise, regardless of your intent. It makes it look like you simply don't know or haven't given due consideration to the factors that influence what makes a girl comfortable.

Would you press ahead with a meeting if you felt the lady was not 100% comfortable? Do you see what I'm saying at least?

[Kendra]

And yet I've been respectful enough to try to engage in debate with calling people trolls, fuckwits, morons, looking for a fight......

Kendra, you'll never get the chance to be alone in a room with me. I don't think you're racist, just a deeply unpleasant individual who does not want her opinion or perception of the world challenged - even when that perception is about something as deeply obnoxious as racism.

I definitely do not expect everyone to agree with me, if I felt that way then I wouldn't come on to a forum filled with strangers with all sorts of opinions. There are many, many decent people on here whom I have a clash of opinions with but they are still lovely people and I will treat them with the respect they deserve but as I've said before, I clash like fuck with trolls and weirdos.....only problem with me is that I tend to stick up for myself whereas others have the will power to just ignore you.

I'm delighted to hear that we actually agree on one thing though......that we will never be in the same room together