Originally Posted by
slavetoyou
Kate I think the issue here is that you do not understand the point I am trying to make and maybe my terminology is confusing the issue. Of course an escort can be a dome, I never said otherwise. I am not "telling" you in a know all attitude how things are but it may appear so because you really don't get my point so I will try and make it as clear and as simple as possible (Im not being smart or telling you but I have a point but just maybe cant get it across).
Basically the OP asked about getting a "DOMINATION" experience, I as a submissive would have like to got advice when I started punting around 20 years ago. I did not start because I was looking for GFE, it was domination i wanted. Over the years I probably have seen between 80 to a 100 escorts some more than once with the majority of these visits over the last few years. I asked them all for the same thing and being new to it at one stage I was not sure what to expect but I knew what I wanted and I would honestly say I left disappointed 95% of the time as the ladies did not know what domination was, a box was ticked. I must stress at the start all I wanted was very light dom, probably what you are offering, but it was hard to get.
I do not claim to be an expert on anything but like everyone else I can only base my opinion on my experiences and my experience is that an escort who has the box ticked for domination does not make her a Dominatrix or does it make her any good at it, and as you pointed out a Dominatrix who has that box ticked does not mean she is any good either. If an escort does do domination and she is any good at it then this is where the review system comes in handy but unless there is proof from other reviewers that the escort can deliver then I would advise anyone to stay away. When you are a submissive and have kinks and fetishes then you do feel like you are a weirdo and you feel vulnerable that your secret may get out so when you book time to visit an escort in the hope of living out your fantasies and are then provided with a poor service (not that the lady was bad as an escort but that she just did not know what she was doing) then it leaves you very deflated and empty. Money doesn't grow on trees so to constantly be disappointed is very hard as you feel that you will never get to live out your fantasies.
So this is why I have suggested that the OP see a Dominatrix so as to save him the disappointment of a bad appointment. A Dominatrix session can be as soft or hard as you want but for some reason people think it is all about being that little bit hard.
As for your abilities, I never mentioned you or said anything about you so I do not understand why you have brought it up, maybe due to you not getting what I am trying to say. I have no doubt that your clients are happy and well done you if they are, but believe me their are many here who do not provide a good service. Also I have been with a couple of the "big name" dommes on this site and believe me their service is pretty poor for what they say they are.
I hope explains my point and it does not come across in a know all manner as it really is just based on all I know.
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I think your original post was open to interpretation, where as this one is much more concise and I would imagine also helpful.
