Quote Originally Posted by Ladyvonteese View Post
I am a Dom (mistress/Goddess) not a sub or switch so that is not going to happen honey as domination is about respecting each others bounderies as well as consensual play not as slavetoyou has stated in one of his post here! And proper safe consensual domination is not about "doming from below either"!

And not sure why I should feel nervous about a fool saying such crap when calling me names on from another poster, some just have nothing better to do than troll and abuse other and all in the name of fetish for a quick free-bie on-line wank. Loll He can dream on. Loll




Very well put and very true in what you say too.

Kate but personally when slaves who think fetish or BDSM is about doming from below are those I refuse to meet up with as these types of people are the very ones who cause these new laws in the fetish and BDSM scene to be drawn up.

All the best
Lady Von Teese

Just to pick up on your point here as I am confused.

"And an there is a big difference between a escort and a domination service and 99% of real Dom's do not offer sex plus 99% slave/subs would not ask a Mistress for sexual services and if/when a Mistress does go further than just doming a sub/slave its the Mistress's choice not the subs/slave who is paying for the domination service. And when they do go further than domination the sub/slave is only being used as a human dildo or a sex slave because the sub/slave is not worthy for anything else other than being used to satisfy the Mistress's/Goddess needs. Loll "

Well we agree there is a difference between escorting and domination and how a real Domme and slave behave but I am concerned with what you say next considering what you say below.

I am a Dom (mistress/Goddess) not a sub or switch so that is not going to happen honey as domination is about respecting each others bounderies as well as consensual play not as slavetoyou has stated in one of his post here! And proper safe consensual domination is not about "doming from below either"!

And not sure why I should feel nervous about a fool saying such crap when calling me names on from another poster, some just have nothing better to do than troll and abuse other and all in the name of fetish for a quick free-bie on-line wank. Loll He can dream on. Loll


You see you talk about consensual play but you have just stated that if the Dom wants to go further then it is she who will decide and not the slave or the paying client. To me that means one of two things,

1. If a client books to have a Domination session mixed with sexual intercourse then you accept his booking but will not necessarily provide the service as you are saying it is you who will decide if it happens, but really it is the sub who has decided already that sex is going to take place as that is what he has requested and by you taking his booking then you have basically said that it will happen. If this is not the case then you are misleading the client.
2. If a client books a Domination session and you accept it but then as you have just said decide to take it further by having sex with the client to satisfy your needs as a "Goddess" but with out him specifically asking for sex that is the same as rape. Some guys do not want sex so to force it on them is very unprofessional.


You can butter it up anyway you want but for this Mistress slave relationship to work as you have pointed out it is about safe consensual play so I do not get this domming form the bottom point as you partake in it anyway. If you take a booking and you provide the service the sub is looking for then you have done what he asked you to do, you have basically being told what to do and you did it. Its not domming form below it is asking a sub what he wants and providing the service.

You mention someone calling you names, trolling and freebie wanks, I hope you are not referring to me, I have not been disrespectful to you or any other poster on this thread but you have insulted me and said my posts are crap and all without any back up. I am no expert on the law or did I claim to be so if I am wrong somewhere I would like to be corrected, no one is learning anything otherwise.

I have apparently touched a nerve with you as I never once referred to you or anything to do with you as I have no interest in you. if you a trying to promote yourself on this thread then fair enough but do not do it at my expense.