The whole control thing is far more extreme than just an escort doing a bit of Dom roleplay in my opinion but as I said, I don't know much about it so I could be wrong but the way I read the OP's post was that he was looking for something a little more lighthearted and mild than going for an actual Dom x
I understand, we are both probably looking at the OP from different view points but I suppose only the poster knows what he wants.
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