Domination question

[slavetoyou]

I think the OP just wants to dip his toe in the water first with some mild playful stuff rather than the serious stuff then maybe once he realises he's a full blown sub, he may take a big leap and dive into the water and phone one of the dom ladies.

Well that's how I read his post anyway.

xx

I understand what you are saying but trust me I spent lots of time and money looking for an "escort" that does domination and 95% don't have a clue. A true dominatrix will cater for all levels of "subs" so to truly find out if you are a sub then you need to see a professional, it's the only way.

[Dipshit]

i would recomed Ladyvonteese....but i've never meet her thoe(hope too soon) if you go on to he page an cheack out her wedsite she give's you a lot of info on it on what she does do an what she doesent do......https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html

LVT seems like a lovely lady. But i would not book her for dom she has a lovely set of errrrrr babyfeeders.

[slavetoyou]

Also, maybe he wants sex at the end. Am I right in thinking that a proper Dom doesn't have sex? Or am I completely wrong? I don't know much about it x

Maybe he does but as you said a true Domme does not have sex with a sub or slave, well that's how I think it should be. Some ladies do have sex with their subs and "slaves", now everyone is entitled to conduct themselves as they wish but being a Mistress puts you so far above your sub or slave that even to be allowed lick her boots is an honour, there should be no way that the sub or slave is worthy enough to have sex with a goddess. If they do have sex then they are equal and that is not how should be.

[Kendra]

Maybe he does but as you said a true Domme does not have sex with a sub or slave, well that's how I think it should be. Some ladies do have sex with their subs and "slaves", now everyone is entitled to conduct themselves as they wish but being a Mistress puts you so far above your sub or slave that even to be allowed lick her boots is an honour, there should be no way that the sub or slave is worthy enough to have sex with a goddess. If they do have sex then they are equal and that is not how should be.

Yes I completely understand but I think this is all a bit too serious and extreme for what the OP was enquiring about. I could be wrong though.

Please remember sweetie, not every slave or "so called slave" is as devoted to his kink and his mistress as you are. A large number are either timewasters or fantasists.

xx

[slavetoyou]

Yes I completely understand but I think this is all a bit too serious and extreme for what the OP was enquiring about. I could be wrong though.

Please remember sweetie, not every slave or "so called slave" is as devoted to his kink and his mistress as you are. A large number are either timewasters or fantasists.

xx

This is where you are mistaken, my first session with my Mistress did not involve one bit of pain or humiliation or anything like that, domination is not about pain it is about control. But to experience it as it should be I would recommend a dominatrix.
I have only progressed to the stage that I am at because of my Mistress, I didn't like whipping but to prove my devotion and the fact my Mistress enjoys whipping I tried it. It's hell and I dread it but I also love proving myself to her.

I do sometimes forget not everyone is a committed as I am to being a slave and that some are all talk no action type of subs or "slaves" but I suppose I have a small advantage, I have the most amazing Mistress so it's easy enough to be so submitted to her.

[HairyPotter]

shouldn't a slave but rewarded with sex if he's good and pleases his mistress. Then everybody is satisfied.

[slavetoyou]

shouldn't a slave but rewarded with sex if he's good and pleases his mistress. Then everybody is satisfied.

A true slaves only reward if he works hard is to be allowed kiss the feet of his Mistress and he would be so grateful for that pleasure. If the Mistress allows it then the sub or slave maybe allowed to cum. Mistress being pleased by the performance and obedience of the sub or slave is satisfaction enough.

[Kendra]

This is where you are mistaken, my first session with my Mistress did not involve one bit of pain or humiliation or anything like that, domination is not about pain it is about control. But to experience it as it should be I would recommend a dominatrix.
I have only progressed to the stage that I am at because of my Mistress, I didn't like whipping but to prove my devotion and the fact my Mistress enjoys whipping I tried it. It's hell and I dread it but I also love proving myself to her.

I do sometimes forget not everyone is a committed as I am to being a slave and that some are all talk no action type of subs or "slaves" but I suppose I have a small advantage, I have the most amazing Mistress so it's easy enough to be so submitted to her.

I didn't mention anything about pain hunni x

[slavetoyou]

I didn't mention anything about pain hunni x

Sorry I misunderstood but you mention serious and extreme so I could only associate that with meaning possibly pain as I can't see how seeing a dominatrix could be serious or extreme.

[Kendra]

Sorry I misunderstood but you mention serious and extreme so I could only associate that with meaning possibly pain as I can't see how seeing a dominatrix could be serious or extreme.

The whole control thing is far more extreme than just an escort doing a bit of Dom roleplay in my opinion but as I said, I don't know much about it so I could be wrong but the way I read the OP's post was that he was looking for something a little more lighthearted and mild than going for an actual Dom x