One for the ladies?

[Kendra]

THAT is the thing i will never get it. Ladies have nice feet, even sexy can say. (well most of them) Nicely pedicured, pretty nail polish.. But a men's feet?! Many of the guys trying to touch pussy with their feet usually during doing a blow job.
That is the just bizarre, not sexy at all, doesn't feel good, and not to mention not hygienic at all. Sooo not hygienic! Please guys don't do that, you can just rest your legs.

Yeah I've had to move myself away a few times while giving oral to my clients, I've no idea why some think it would be sexy to play with my clit with their toes especially when feet are one of those issues where you either love them or hate them, bit like myself actually

xx

[Kendra]

or Footing, I was watching a video last night where she gobbles up the whole foot, I dont think they were size 16's though

Oh jeeeeeeeeze! That brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it x

[Petros]

This is one for the ladies, maybe this isn't even the right section to ask the question?

Anyhoo.....am I the only one who finds fingering really, really sore? In my private life I enjoy it if I am in a relationship but I reckon that's because my boyfriend knows exactly how I like it whereas when meeting with strangers, they aren't mind readers so it's impossible for them to know exactly what I like.

I tense up so badly when a client goes to finger me and that's why I find it sore, it's because I've had too many clients either slip and scratch me (one actually cut me and caused me to bleed) or try to stuff too many fingers in or to try and finger me when I am completely dry because there has been no other foreplay.

There is also the hygiene issue because people carry all sorts of bacteria under their fingernails.

And lastly, our body's aren't actually designed to have as much sex as we have as an escort and usually I am absolutely fine having sex and receiving oral sex but when it comes to the texture of fingers, it feels very different and I feel that end up getting friction burns.

Anyway, I stopped allowing fingering about a year or so ago because I couldn't bear it anymore but I hear on different forums, punters complaining when an escort doesn't allow fingering.

So as I said above, am I the only one who tenses up and doesn't enjoy this at all? Am I the only one who just doesn't allow it any more? Someone suggested using lube to avoid the feeling of too many fingers or trying to put fingers in when dry so I did try this but this is when I find I get scratched or cut with nails.

Maybe I've just been really unlucky in the fingering department. It's a delicate area.

Thoughts?

While I know this is really one for the ladies I thought I'd contribute my 2 cent worth.

I can totally appreciate what you say Kendra. While I do live slipping a finger or two into the lady I am petrified doing so as I am always afraid I will hurt her. I will never try tis if a lady does not advertise it, nor will I ask. I can only imagine how sore it could be for the girl should I make a mistake with my fingers.

In the case were girls allow fingering I will always try to insure she has had time to become wet enough first. I will spend some time with my tongue working around the area first.

I will never just shove a finger in, I will ease it in very slowly while watching the expression on the girls face. If I think I have over stepped the mark or I am hurting her I will stop.

I have had the occasions where some girls seemed to really enjoy me fingering them. I suppose there are many factors involved which will lead to whether a girl enjoys it or not. The obvious one being does the guy know what he is doing? There is also the case of where the girl has been fingered recently a number of times, I am sure there is only so much fingering those delicate areas can take.

For me it is a real bonus to have the privilege to be allowed finger a lady. It shows a lot of trust. having said that if it is not allowed I totally understand and it does not detract from the time spent together.

[Meursault]

my favorite chocolate bar is a twix, because theres nothing like two fingers inside you

[Kendra]

While I know this is really one for the ladies I thought I'd contribute my 2 cent worth.

I can totally appreciate what you say Kendra. While I do live slipping a finger or two into the lady I am petrified doing so as I am always afraid I will hurt her. I will never try tis if a lady does not advertise it, nor will I ask. I can only imagine how sore it could be for the girl should I make a mistake with my fingers.

In the case were girls allow fingering I will always try to insure she has had time to become wet enough first. I will spend some time with my tongue working around the area first.

I will never just shove a finger in, I will ease it in very slowly while watching the expression on the girls face. If I think I have over stepped the mark or I am hurting her I will stop.

I have had the occasions where some girls seemed to really enjoy me fingering them. I suppose there are many factors involved which will lead to whether a girl enjoys it or not. The obvious one being does the guy know what he is doing? There is also the case of where the girl has been fingered recently a number of times, I am sure there is only so much fingering those delicate areas can take.

For me it is a real bonus to have the privilege to be allowed finger a lady. It shows a lot of trust. having said that if it is not allowed I totally understand and it does not detract from the time spent together.

Although it's only the ladies that can actually relate to what I am saying, the guys are more than welcome to post their views so thank you for doing so.

With what you've said, it's clear than not only are you very respectful and gentle but also that you understand how to work a woman's body before doing this sort of thing. Seriously I used to have men come to see me who would start trying to stuff 2 fingers in me while I was completely dry before even kissing me.....bloody awful!

You seem to have the technique, care and sense just right though

xx

[Petros]

Although it's only the ladies that can actually relate to what I am saying, the guys are more than welcome to post their views so thank you for doing so.

With what you've said, it's clear than not only are you very respectful and gentle but also that you understand how to work a woman's body before doing this sort of thing. Seriously I used to have men come to see me who would start trying to stuff 2 fingers in me while I was completely dry before even kissing me.....bloody awful!

You seem to have the technique, care and sense just right though

xx

I honestly don't know if I have the technique right or not Kendra, only the ladies who allow me to play in this area can answer that but I genuinely do worry about how I go about it. As I said, I am petrified that I might hurt the lady.

I would hope that any lady who allowed me to finger them would say if I was doing it wrong or imposing the slightest amount of discomfort on them.

[Kaz]

You should always get the sign first before you do it.

[The D Man]

Would only do it with the ladies consent. Even then I am so afraid that I would hurt her and that is the last thing I would want to do. Also when consent is given I am very unsure about the technique and would have no problem with the lady telling me I was doing it incorrect or to stop completely. Would be great if she could teach me though.
So at the moment out of fear I would not do it.