This may be difficult for you to understand but from an escorts point of view and a woman in a vulnerable position, I am anything but a timewaster but I HAVE cancelled bookings at the very last minute because something the client has done has suddenly made me wary. If a client insisted on texting me for directions to my door then I wouldn't meet with him either because I will NOT put in writing directions to my front door to a complete stranger, no way. I wouldn't do it if it were a hotel room so I certainly wouldn't do it when it's my home address, no way.
So I think the chances are, this was the problem.