Paedophile Next Door

[ber]

One of the links provided on this forum was talking about tagging sex offenders (clients), instead of putting them in prison, so yes there is talk of that in Ireland.

This has been taken totally out of context, the bill going before the Dail consists of much more than just the criminalising of the buying of sex, it has to do with other sexual offences. The tagging of sex offenders woluld only be in very serious cases such as serial rapists etc. This has been brought about by the fear generated by the release of several high profile offenders such as
Larry Murphy and a traveller in Cork whom Gardai were visiting 2 and 3 times a day to keep track of his movements.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I posted on this very issue a month ago >>>

https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...37#post1447137

(when I mention my education and experience , I was speaking of professional experience)


Pedophiles simply cannot be reformed.

Imo pedophila is simply the attraction and a sexdrive that is directed at the wrong segment of society.

Up until the not too distant past , homosexuality was regarded a mental illness. Now we know that for the most part it is innate.

This argument does not excuse pedophiliac behavior (!) , it is simply an effort to try to explain the mechanism.

: Think of your own sexdrive : you are attracted to women / men , yes ? Can you change that at will ?

How about if someone told you that from today on it is wrong , it is against the law illegal to follow through on your

sex drive / sexual attraction ?

Effectively this would mean lifelong celibacy. Could you , would you do it ?

As a decent human being if you understood that your actions would be hurtful and damaging to the other party ,

you would refrain. Clearly not every person is a decent human being , but I am convinced that there are

many many pedophiles out there who do not offend. I'm sure it must be a lifelong struggle.


The though is repulsive , the act is inexcusable. But I do not think the thought and desire can be eradicated.

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia



Imo mandatory 24/7 monitoring of all convicted pedophiles would be the most effective method in preventing further

assaults , crimes against children. Monitoring the school in the neighborhood (where the offender was seen leering in

windows) is simplistic and non-effective. While the nice gardai are keeping an eye on the school , the offender

can just mosy on over to another area or other town , and do his misdeeds.

Monitoring of the offender (!) is the key.

Further , I feel that pedophiles who willingly come forward to the police or social services before committing a

crime should be given all the social psychological support possible , in order to avoid them becoming an offender.

This might mean intense extensive counseling , perhaps housing assistance where they could be moved to a

neighborhood without schools etc.

So : two pronged prescription -- constant monitoring and zero tolerance of those who have offended , and full-on

social support of those who are decent enough to struggle against their desires and who aim to not abuse.

Nothing else will work imo. You can hang one high , it will not deter the next.


Also , if there was open acknowledgement of this condition as a disease , the secrecy surrounding it might diminish ,

pre-offenders might be more willing to come forward.

And then of course there are still medical options of chemical castrations for those willing . ( an unwilling individual

who is subjected to chemical castration has many ways about it to counter the effects of the hormones injected ,

thereby nullifying its effects. In individuals who have offended , and have no clear intent to modify their behavior ,

only physical castration might show any result. Then they might turn into murderers if left to their own devices. )


This my humble opinion x

That would be assuming that the paedophile was only attracted to children. In the programme that I mentioned they had a paedophile come forward and tell his story. He said that he was also attracted to women, as in women old enough to give their consent. If that is the case for other paedophiles there is no reason whatsoever why they should be celibate or have a normal loving relationship.

[Curvaceous Kate]

This has been taken totally out of context, the bill going before the Dail consists of much more than just the criminalising of the buying of sex, it has to do with other sexual offences. The tagging of sex offenders woluld only be in very serious cases such as serial rapists etc. This has been brought about by the fear generated by the release of several high profile offenders such as
Larry Murphy and a traveller in Cork whom Gardai were visiting 2 and 3 times a day to keep track of his movements.

I'm not sure about that. If someone is stopped multiple times as a client then they could be seen as a serial sex offender. Are they putting a gradient on the severity of sex offense? Surely since they are treating paying for sex as rape, then it would come under the same heading?

The way I see it the whole thing is wrong and being looked at in a negative way. Consenting sex should not be seen as an illegal act full stop! The fact that they are going to make it illegal in itself shows a huge lack of understanding or consideration to what is actually happening, so who knows how far they may take it?

[xagerate]

I'm not sure about that. If someone is stopped multiple times as a client then they could be seen as a serial sex offender. Are they putting a gradient on the severity of sex offense? Surely since they are treating paying for sex as rape, then it would come under the same heading? The way I see it the whole thing is wrong and being looked at in a negative way. Consenting sex should not be seen as an illegal act full stop! The fact that they are going to make it illegal in itself shows a huge lack of understanding or consideration to what is actually happening, so who knows how far they may take it?

This is the part I was referring to when I said ,I must search for where that has been mentioned.
Seems crazy

[slavetoyou]

That would be assuming that the paedophile was only attracted to children. In the programme that I mentioned they had a paedophile come forward and tell his story. He said that he was also attracted to women, as in women old enough to give their consent. If that is the case for other paedophiles there is no reason whatsoever why they should be celibate or have a normal loving relationship.

I have to agree with Stephanie. Being a Paedophile is similar to being gay or being a submissive. Now wait a minute before the PC police jump on the band wagon and yes I am saying I am similar to a Paedophile. I will explain and JUST TO BE CLEAR I DO NOT AGREE OR CONDONE WITH THEIR BEHAVIOUR but it is a mind set.
You can not cure a gay person, a true submissive like myself cannot be cured and either can a paedophile. I am attracted to women and have had normal loving relationships but deep down it is my submissive behaviour that I longed for so to say that they can be cured or distracted by normal relationships is in my opinion wishful thinking.
If a person finds themselves having padeophile tendencies and they seek help then that is to be commended but it does not take away from the seriousness of the subject. Anything that involves non consensual acts and especially with children, even the viewing of pictures of it is something that can not be excused as as mental health issue. Ok you can call it one but a few sessions on a couch isn't going to cure it.