Does it count if you pay for it?

[Ladyvonteese]

Well said Petros, and totally agree with you in all points.

I don't pay for sex — I pay for time and companionship and during this time and companionship I have had some amazing sex.

Now some will say I am playing with words here when I say this and perhaps I am. However the question was "Does it count if you pay for it". For me I am not into the quick wham bam thank you mam encounters. I like to take things easy, chat etc. As the time progresses and sex enters the equation I have forgotten about the business side of things.

Basically, what i am saying is that I don't see a difference in whether sex counts or does not count just because money has changed hands at some point during the night — sex is sex and it all counts IMO irrespective of how you came to be in a position to have it

I used to think like that honey when I was your age but let me resure you it does getting better and better as you get older so you have so much more positivity to look forward to. x

I have to admit it did bother me that I had to pay for it and in back of your head you know the girl isn't enjoying it and its not real passionate sex like a women who is really into you just not the same but it literaly is the only way I can get physical contact with a women I just don't have the confidence or the knack with women the depression doesn't help either cus your self esteem is on the floor and i'm 27 imagine what its going to be like when i'm 30 or 40 haha

[gonzo76]

Let me turn this one around and ask if all the money you spent chasing women unsuccessfully; or all the money you spend in a sexless marriage, is monopoly money?

I read the letter that lady sent into the Indo about how shit her life was and how she hated the thought of somebody standing over her grave saying: "Wasn't she great at paying her taxes".

It got me thinking, none of us are going to be old men saying to ourselves: "How glad I am I never missed a day of work", but I bet loads of us will think "I wish I'd had more sex" when we're on our last legs.

I wonder though, despite the fact that I have some amazing sexual experiences thanks to the ladies on this website, will I feel it doesn't really count because I had to pay for it?

Any thoughts?

[zaxis130]

u ain't done it until u,ve done it with a pro, dam right it counts

[Mickey O leary]

I know what you mean and in a way to some it doesn't as she wouldn't look twice at you unless you had cash in your pocket.

[SteveB]

I don't think life is a game where you count points, and decide which count and which don't count.

[HairyPotter]

Ah its a toughie alright and for us young guys we cant put it down as another notch on our bedpost as you paid for it.We don't feel we earned it as such if you know what I mean. That would be kind of cheating, Right
Its means so much more when you get up of your arse and go to the nightclub, get tanked up and score and you got some cash in your back pocket the next morning when your carving another notch on that bedpost

[SteveB]

An experience is an experience whether you pay for it or not.
Even a bad experience or an experience that is not as good as you would have hoped is still an experience.
And to be able to spend time with a very interesting person, to talk to that person, and to share an intimate experience with that person, a person you would not meet in your everyday life, is worth the money.
From that point of view, "Does it count if you pay for it?", seems an inappropriate question.

[adamcork]

Lots of guys out in the real world pay for it but without realizing it, they just buy it using drink or drugs. The thought of getting some girl drunk in a club and having awkward sex with her somewhere, really sickens me and on top of that how much of the encounter can you remember yourself the next day.
Meeting a lovely escort, especially one you visit regularly and have a good relationship with, is so much nicer and far more pleasurable to be frank, besides after the first few minutes the fact that your paying is totally forgotten. Sex to some guys is about conquest and I can understand that they feel that paying for it defeats the purpose. For me it's about losing myself in the moment in the company of someone special. So to answer the question, I think it dose count

[Westsidex]

will I feel it doesn't really count because I had to pay for it?

Any thoughts?

It wont count. I think far too many guys go to escorts amd massage shops expecting (or hoping) that it becomes more. Sorry your either a customer or your not. You cant be both.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Lots of guys out in the real world pay for it but without realizing it, they just buy it using drink or drugs.

Thats a load of bullshit. You cant win them all no matter who you are. FFs it isnt rocket science. Just be yourself, treat the woman properly, talk to her face instead of her tits and let pressure out of it by not getting all emotional and let the chips fall wherever they do fall. That goes for women too. Treat a guy right and stop act all stupid and let things go from there.


Westside.