Why do some clients do this?

[circumcised guy]

While i'm not condoning this guys behavior for one min because cancelling 3times in a row is just taking the piss especially at very short notice. But occasionally things can crop up that are out of a guys control granted you usually have some advance notice so there's absolutely no excuse for not giving you ladies plenty of notice and not leaving it to the last min. So as i said 3times in a row forget about him he's just a prick.

[willie wacker]

[slavetoyou]

So you have a client where he's a regular or he's someone you've met 4+ times without any issues then all of a sudden they become complete timewasters? What's that all about?

I had a client coming at lunchtime today who I've met a good few times where he's been as good as gold but the last 3 bookings, he's cancelled at the last minute.

I'm not impressed, he's had his 3 strikes so he's now banned!

Sorry, just venting

Things can crop up but I can understand the annoyance of last minute cancelations. With you actually post what he does for a living here I ask you is his job the type where he could get called away last minute say like a plumber or something, what time does he book as in is you say it was lunchtime, are all the of the times he cancels lunchtime, maybe he thinks he can get to you in his head but it just doesn't work out. I know some guys are just assholes and time wasters but done guys I think don't realise that when they cancel what the actual consequences are to the escort (wasted time and effort getting ready, losing out on a genuine booking) so unless he has good excuses then forget him but if they are genuine ones maybe give him one more chance with the understanding if he does it again he is gone.

[patty]

If he is your regular customer you can talk to him straight. Some customers they really believe we have nothing more in our life. Sometimes they don't realize how much they mess up our life when they cancel in short notice.

He always says work but that's not good enough. He shouldn't be booking appointments if there's a chance he can't make it.

I don't think it's fair how anyone thinks their work or meetings are any more important than my work. This is how I earn a living so with clients messing us about, it costs us money as we could have met someone else.

Doing it at the last minute also doesn't give me enough time to arranange something else.

xx

[Jiberjabber]

Things can crop up but I can understand the annoyance of last minute cancelations. With you actually post what he does for a living here I ask you is his job the type where he could get called away last minute say like a plumber or something, what time does he book as in is you say it was lunchtime, are all the of the times he cancels lunchtime, maybe he thinks he can get to you in his head but it just doesn't work out. I know some guys are just assholes and time wasters but done guys I think don't realise that when they cancel what the actual consequences are to the escort (wasted time and effort getting ready, losing out on a genuine booking) so unless he has good excuses then forget him but if they are genuine ones maybe give him one more chance with the understanding if he does it again he is gone.

You're suggesting she waste more of her time? The guy has already had three chances, I'd consider that more than fair. It wouldn't be tolerated in any other line of work and it makes no sense that sex work should be the exception.

[slavetoyou]

You're suggesting she waste more of her time? The guy has already had three chances, I'd consider that more than fair. It wouldn't be tolerated in any other line of work and it makes no sense that sex work should be the exception.

Unless you tell someone when they let you down that it's not ok and I won't put up with it then they will think it's ok, 3 chances is too much as the guy may not even realise what's going on. If he's a good client he may just need a talking too. Every one should get one chance, after second he needs a talking too, a third chance only if she believes last two times were genuine, just a thought. This has nothing to do with sex work it's about how you deal with people who waste your time. Was he spoken to about the previous 2 times or was he told its fine no problem, it just depends on that I think. What Kendra does with her time is up to her

[Jiberjabber]

Unless you tell someone when they let you down that it's not ok and I won't put up with it then they will think it's ok, 3 chances is too much as the guy may not even realise what's going on. If he's a good client he may just need a talking too. Every one should get one chance, after second he needs a talking too, a third chance only if she believes last two times were genuine, just a thought. This has nothing to do with sex work it's about how you deal with people who waste your time. Was he spoken to about the previous 2 times or was he told its fine no problem, it just depends on that I think. What Kendra does with her time is up to her

Apologies, I thought you were suggesting that the guy be given a fourth chance. My bad, I should have realised that was too ridiculous and couldn't have been what you meant.

[Rachel Divine]

Rachel shut that big trap of yours will ya! This is an escort based forum and I had an escort based question. Now hold your gums together and be quiet ok

Lovely language as always.

It is an escort forum and this topic has been up too many times. Timewasters, old news .. Allowing him to waste your time, three times, your own fault. I am sure you had your reasons tho

Why don't you start a nice, happy thread instead of intoxicating this forum with bitter comments?

[Zoidberg]

This is how I earn a living

And going to work is how he earns his living. Unless you sepak to him about it you will never know. The rest is all just speculation and bullshit.

[funlover12]

And going to work is how he earns his living. Unless you sepak to him about it you will never know. The rest is all just speculation and bullshit.

but what would the forum be without speculation and bullshit