It depends on what you want from a relationship. If you just want to shag around, marriage isn't for you. If you want to commit and have a family, marriage, to the right person of course, is for you. Quite often, the sex life within a marriage wains or people have their problems, fall out and sex with each other is the last thing on their mind. It seems that in this day and age, rather than discuss their issues with their partners or talk to a marriage counselor, men will go out and get their own 'counselling' by paying for sex. I'm not judging; every case is different, but for me it is either one or the other. It is not easy to have our cake and eat it too.