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    • I recently looked on the web to find an answer to a verry common problem, is better with an escort or a wife, so i searched a lot of forums and i found out that almoust all the people think the same. We talked about relationships vs casual encounters vs escorts. Here is how they think it (and it kind of made sense to me). Your thoughts?
    • Escort: no emotional baggage, you can always pick a gorgeous looking girl to bang (no matter how old you get), there is a diversity of them (more vaginas = better), they are always willing to please you
    • Wife: Emotional baggage, huge financial investment (on top of risk of divorce = 50 % of your $ gone), as you both age she will look less sexually appealing, withholds sex as leverage
    • Girlfriend: Kind of like wife, but at the time of dating she is hot and probably DTF more often.
    • One night stand: emotional baggage, she won't do everything you want to sexually, and it takes a huge amount of effort and time
    • So what do you think is the best for you?



    Last edited by JessycaWild; 20-11-14 at 16:07.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JessycaWild View Post
    • I recently looked on the web to find an answer to a verry common problem, is better with an escort or a wife, so i searched a lot of forums and i found out that almoust all the people think the same. We talked about relationships vs casual encounters vs escorts. Here is how they think it (and it kind of made sense to me). Your thoughts?
    • Escort: no emotional baggage, you can always pick a gorgeous looking girl to bang (no matter how old you get), there is a diversity of them (more vaginas = better), they are always willing to please you
    • Wife: Emotional baggage, huge financial investment (on top of risk of divorce = 50 % of your $ gone), as you both age she will look less sexually appealing, withholds sex as leverage
    • Girlfriend: Kind of like wife, but at the time of dating she is hot and probably DTF more often.
    • One night stand: emotional baggage, she won't do everything you want to sexually, and it takes a huge amount of effort and time
    • So what do you think is the best for you?



    i think if you asked every man to be honest, a lot of them would prefer escorts. Of course they wont say that in public or the company of their girlfriend/wive etc.

    unfortunatley marriage is the standard by which we judge a man and a woman and hence why men flock to get married. It is often based on image and a sort of pseudo popularity contest.

    Marriage benefits a woman much more than a man i feel. A man in reality wants to have numerous sexual partners, a woman does not. What marriage affords her is the best environment to raise her children and hence why it is adopted.

    I find it sad that people dance towards marriage solely because everyone does it. I have no issue with people in relationships or marriage so long as they fully want to do that. But a lot of the time it is unconscious demands to be like others. Why cant you have lets say one woman dating three men or vice versa. This whole marriage thing is a model we have adopted because he benefits a men, women and economies for various reasons.

    You could go around to a school and ask what the students want from life and a lot will say marriage and work as if its the template for life. Very sad indeed, not that i care.

    I agree though, an escort is less stress.

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    While I am not writing off one night stands, a girlfriend or a wife at this point in my life escorts are what keeps me happy.

    But, meet the right person and that point of view could easily change!
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    Ideally I would take my wife 6 days of the week and an escort 1 day a week but if I was told it was one or the other then it would be the wife.
    Not very pc for an escort website but hey ho......

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    I think the answer is in the question, in my experience the passion runs out of a relationship after a while , although everything else could be fine, whereas a visit to an escort is exciting and interesting and fills a void that has gone missing in a relationship , just my opinion of course

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    Best and cheapest option for me would be to become a celibate priest(the world is running out of them)and instead of pontificating on this forum I might have a congregation to bore senseless.

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    # wife: I don't think escorts and wife can be compared. That is a relationship. Visiting an escort, keeping a mistress or hookup with a stranger in a bar that is not a relationship so it cannot be compared with the wife.
    The wife is the mother of the children, and that emotional baggage is not abad thing. About growing old together i think is beautiful actually.

    # girlfriend is an other relationship, someone you are dating with most cases hoping she is the right person you are going to share your life with, so it cannot compared with escorts either.

    People want different things from a relationship and different things from an escort so it cannot be compared. This is the most stupid comparison i've ever heard!

    Casual hookup in a bar vs escorts, YES they can be compared. As it is about sex. (mainly and mostly)

    # Meeting with a pretty lady in bar has it's own excitement. Buy a drink have a chat. Flirting and tempting, playing with word and eye contacts, little touches, teasing. It might be leading to sex, might not. Then you wasted a couple of bucks paying a drink for a stranger.. Might leading to sex and it will be mind-blowing, might be just an average sex.
    YES it is an effort and maybe the result won't be equal with the energy you put in it. That is the risk. But in that situation maybe it doesn't matter at all. And one night stand i don't think there is emotional baggage. That is why it called one night stand.

    # Paying for an escort is definitely no emotions and drama involved. It is totally up to you when you visit. You pay and you get laid for sure. Can choose lady who does this or an other lady who does that. Big variety, slim or curvy, western or oriental, back or white, busty or prefer big booty, petit or tall, young or mature... Different working hours suits everyone. Satisfaction is guaranteed.
    The selection wide, and we all just a call away to give you a good time.

    One thing missing from the list. WANKING! That cost nothing, you never gonna be disappointed, no emotional baggage, and it is always available.
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    Quote Originally Posted by marsha View Post
    # wife: I don't think escorts and wife can be compared. That is a relationship. Visiting an escort, keeping a mistress or hookup with a stranger in a bar that is not a relationship so it cannot be compared with the wife.
    The wife is the mother of the children, and that emotional baggage is not abad thing. About growing old together i think is beautiful actually.

    # girlfriend is an other relationship, someone you are dating with most cases hoping she is the right person you are going to share your life with, so it cannot compared with escorts either.

    People want different things from a relationship and different things from an escort so it cannot be compared. This is the most stupid comparison i've ever heard!

    Casual hookup in a bar vs escorts, YES they can be compared. As it is about sex. (mainly and mostly)

    # Meeting with a pretty lady in bar has it's own excitement. Buy a drink have a chat. Flirting and tempting, playing with word and eye contacts, little touches, teasing. It might be leading to sex, might not. Then you wasted a couple of bucks paying a drink for a stranger.. Might leading to sex and it will be mind-blowing, might be just an average sex.
    YES it is an effort and maybe the result won't be equal with the energy you put in it. That is the risk. But in that situation maybe it doesn't matter at all. And one night stand i don't think there is emotional baggage. That is why it called one night stand.

    # Paying for an escort is definitely no emotions and drama involved. It is totally up to you when you visit. You pay and you get laid for sure. Can choose lady who does this or an other lady who does that. Big variety, slim or curvy, western or oriental, back or white, busty or prefer big booty, petit or tall, young or mature... Different working hours suits everyone. Satisfaction is guaranteed.
    The selection wide, and we all just a call away to give you a good time.

    One thing missing from the list. WAKING! That cost nothing, you never gonna be disappointed, no emotional baggage, and it is always available.
    i love waking....up alright. weekend, sun shining in the window, costs me nothing and that first cup of coffee after you wake up is brilliant

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meursault View Post
    i love waking....up alright. weekend, sun shining in the window, costs me nothing and that first cup of coffee after you wake up is brilliant
    it was just a typo!

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    It depends on what you want from a relationship. If you just want to shag around, marriage isn't for you. If you want to commit and have a family, marriage, to the right person of course, is for you. Quite often, the sex life within a marriage wains or people have their problems, fall out and sex with each other is the last thing on their mind. It seems that in this day and age, rather than discuss their issues with their partners or talk to a marriage counselor, men will go out and get their own 'counselling' by paying for sex. I'm not judging; every case is different, but for me it is either one or the other. It is not easy to have our cake and eat it too.

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