Could you, would you?

[Kaz]

I would. No problem at all.

[Empirical]

I do believe that this whole idea of women being difficult to understand is a big illusion. Some people are easier to understand than others, regardless of gender. Sometimes, I don't understand my own actions, let alone somebody else's.

I understand being jealous, and when two people love each other, the idea of not having physical and emotional exclusivity to each other can be torture. Have you seen the film 'A Million Ways to Die in the West' yet? It's a film written by Family Guy creator Seth MacFarlane. There is a very amusing situation whereby, Edward, is engaged to a prostitute, Ruth, and they are 'saving themselves' for their wedding night; despite Ruth having sex with 15-20 clients a day:

That's new to me, thanks for the clip. I guess it's a comedy, sort of in the style of Cat Ballou—one of the best films ever.

As for men and women: recent neuro-physiological research shows, through fMRIs, that women's brains show activity backwards and forwards in the hemispheres, while men's show activity from side to side. Make of this what you will, but to me it's clear that men and women are just wired differently (and that we men will never be able to understand women).

[samlad]

That's new to me, thanks for the clip. I guess it's a comedy, sort of in the style of Cat Ballou—one of the best films ever.

As for men and women: recent neuro-physiological research shows, through fMRIs, that women's brains show activity backwards and forwards in the hemispheres, while men's show activity from side to side. Make of this what you will, but to me it's clear that men and women are just wired differently (and that we men will never be able to understand women).

I don't disagree that men and women's thought processes are different, but I don't believe that men can't understand women. They just have to bloody listen to them

[Hard Lover]

I would have no problem marrying a former escort,if you like,fancy and have a connection together,that's what counts.

[Jiberjabber]

All this talk of marriage is making my ass twitch.

Apart from that I think Stephanie, Sam and Empirical have pretty much summed it up.

[10inchesandcounting]

I certainly would as long as she is out of the game!!!

Could you, would you...

marry an escort?

or, if you don't believe in marriage, enter a long term arrangement?

Perhaps you are already married; would you consider a "change"?

No?

Why not?

[Empirical]

I don't disagree that men and women's thought processes are different, but I don't believe that men can't understand women. They just have to bloody listen to them

I'm not so sure, but perhaps that's just me.

Molly's soliloquy at the end of Ulysses is often said to be one of the best descriptions of a man entering a woman's mind. But didn't Nora say something to the effect that "Jim doesn't understand women"?

[twentyeight]

I wouldn't mind marrying an escort at all as long as she's being safe in her work life

[Stephanie]

Once a punter always a punter, the need for sex doesn't go, but the reason and needs to why be an escort can and do

I respect the ex bf who broke up with over my job alot more than most, because for me I could never be with someone who ok for me to fuck others job or not, I want the man who break the door down to stop it
But that just me this isn't going to be my life, love can go on hold

But hey I couldn't do swinging with someone I love either

But the reason and need to be a 'punter' can be just as temporary !

I know it from experience : the grieving lost-in-the-world widow I've helped to rediscover life and find new (sexual)

fulfilment / partners / future !

Or the inexperienced 'bloke' , who once he's gotten the hang of things , moves on to real life encounters.

I love to teach !!

And my other Lovely whose better half was going through no-sex menopause for the best part of two years , and now

she's back in full swing , as if making up for lost time ...! the fact that he still comes to me occasionally

(once a full moon) , speak only to my irresistibility xx



I'm totally with you though , Annabel x

My makeup is such , I could never respect and look up to a man who'd be happy to see me go off to 'work' .

Or one that'd be even just willing to 'put up with it' ...nope , couldn't respect such a man ...

(Also , if I loved One , I couldn't entertain the Few xxx just a One Man Woman I am ) xx

[EIFII]

My makeup is such , I could never respect and look up to a man who'd be happy to see me go off to 'work' .

Or one that'd be even just willing to 'put up with it' ...nope , couldn't respect such a man ...

(Also , if I loved One , I couldn't entertain the Few xxx just a One Man Woman I am ) xx

Some very interesting and thought provoking posts in this thread Stephanie.

One very good definition of love I have come across is the ability to give your partner the freedom to be herself. If that is to be an escort, because she likes and enjoys that, because she's good at it, then is that really a cause for disrespect between the couple?
You cannot love someone and in so doing, hope to change them, but can only accept them for who they are today.