I commend all the guys who are so openminded as to see us as a human being first and foremost , job notwithstanding.
I wish there were more people like that in society at large ; perhaps
then , we would not be facing such restrictive
and counterproductive and punitive and discriminatory legislation as we are facing today : to victimise the sex worker and
make a pariah out of otherwise law abiding citizen men.
However , all that said , ye enlightened men , willing to marry a sex worker :
Tell me this
>> how will you feel when your loved one , your Significan Other goes off to work , and you
know she
will be engaging in various physical , sexual , most intimate acts with several
(or in an even worse case -- with a single one reg ) Client/s ? She likely will even have an orgasm or two. That being the
most intimate moment of all imo. Or suck a mickey or two. Will you just block it out ?
: It is all good and applaud-worthy to have such an open mind to begin with , but truly , how would you feel kissing those lips
(either set of lips) when she walks out the door , knowing that a handful of men will
'kiss' the same just while she is out on this day.
Can you truly handle it ???
How about when she gets home after a day's 'work' and she's tired , mentally emotionally exhausted ,
wants nothing more than some food on the table and a hug at most. No conversation , just space. Can you handle it ?
It all sounds so exotic , to be in a r/ship with an Escort ..
But I tell you this , if you ask a house painter if he wants to paint a house after his workday , if you ask a mechanic if he
wants to fix a car in his off time , if you even ask a surgeon if he wants to operate on his day off , I tell you most certainly ,
their answer will likely be
No. And so the same with (most of) us. : the exotic wears off quick , and at the end of the
day we really are just like anybody else -- with good days , with bad days , with bad hair days , and with time of the month
crankiness , and personal issues and baggage and responsibilities that you had never seen as a client.
Because
that is what our 'job' is : to always be in top form , to always be happy , to always
'be there ' for you ,
to always look our best , to always smile , to always be horny , to always be entertaining , to always be accepting and
welcoming , and in my case to always be true.
That's a lot of
always as part of the job , and most certainly on my time off I do not want to always push my own
issues or concerns to the back.
And so the question arises : r/ships being as difficult as they are to begin with even in the 'real world' , why would you want
the extra strain of your potential partner being a sex worker ? Are we really truly "once in a lifetime"
?
Ye who've been there with an escort , you know.
Ye who dream of , think again
xx