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Thread: ToraBora et al.. contact ladies during their "available hours"m be respectful please

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    I didn't say anything harsh.... Just pointing out as a person who also needs his phone to make a living, albeit by different means, that it is possible to just switch off the phone and get away from it all!!

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    That is true, but I am only able to work a week a month, so i do need to try to be responsive and polite but I cant work outside the hours I advertise , its not a choice. Its how it is.
    You are alright Paul, I wasnt having a go as I am a chilled gal, but I needed to say it as it was
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    Quote Originally Posted by paul2626 View Post
    I didn't say anything harsh.... Just pointing out as a person who also needs his phone to make a living, albeit by different means, that it is possible to just switch off the phone and get away from it all!!
    Paul , like yourself if live by my phone and it's on most of the time , but I would suggest that if you or I get a text from a customer it will be businesslike .

    I have seen first hand some of the abusive texts a few of my regular ladies have shared with me and they are very dark . It's scary for some ladies out there and no one should have their lives threatened by text . They have been threatened with rape , murder , breaking of limbs , report to the law and report to management companies, threats to post photos of themselves and any client leaving the buildings on every lamp post etc etc .

    What is the answer for this ? is their any protection for escorts ?

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    In fairness to you Rebecca, the times you list as being available for work are very specific for each day of the week. This tells me that you have carefully listed your work times. The problem for lads arises when some ladies put down times when they may or may not be working. They may say they are available at say 11pm but decide at 10 that they are tired and turn the phone off. They are of course entitled to do that.

    Human nature being what it is lads will "chance" ringing just in case you are available. However they are never entitled to be abusive to you.

    Any half intelligent man reading your profile can see that your work times are very specific... Moreso that the majority of the escorts advertising here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by english rebecca View Post
    Of course,
    YES adn you do have a valid point.

    I was just pointing out the obvious, We pay 25E a day to display the correct info so we do not have to repeat in parrot fashion... our services, rates, do's and dont's along with rates and our availability hours.
    You have to understand how tedious it becomes for ladies considering we are already paying to run a comprehensive advert that lists these details.
    I am sure you can understand my point of view, Silly questions are far from necessary as the majority of the info is already provided .

    My phone is on silent from 9pm for the week a month I work. I leave it on so I can see the missed calls and get back to my genuine regs the next morning. Its courtesy as far as I am concerned.

    I am only asking that gents extend the same courtesy back.

    I have worked in a few countries, not many but enough to notice that here , gents dont seem to take much notice. There are ladies who do work 24 hours, but I do take it very much to heart when I wake up to abusive messages, just because I havent answered my phone when a client would have like to have seen me, ( often at 4 am or silly O'Clock)
    I am honest about all my profile so just saying guys, take note.
    If you are genuine and would really like to see a certain lady, then take your time to read the reviews and observe her services, the hours she works etc.
    Its just decency and manners, the naughtiness can begin once you are with a lady. Up until that point your attitude and manners are as important to us as ours is to you.
    1ST impressions and all that.
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    I can't understand why that should happen. When I look at a profile I check time availability, and even it it says 24 hours, I make allowances for the fact no person works 24 hours and would use a commonsense approach. Up till 11 pm I reckon is the cut of time, and lets be fair, I imagine after about 10 pm you get the guys with the few dutch courage pints ringing.........

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    I can see where Rebecca is coming from, I work 10am til 10pm, I do switch my phone off at 10pm, yet when I switch my phone at 10am the next day, the amount of missed calls I've had is unreal, mainly between 2-5am, why? I've noticed that these calls have increased greatly the past couple of months for some reason.

    I also worked in other countries & this problem of guys ringing outside working hours is greater in Ireland. Also guys turning up at 'working' apartments without appointments, is greater in Ireland. Some guys think that because they've seen someone at a certain apartment then they can turn up or ring at anytime that suits them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melinda blondey View Post
    Whos to say our friends have not got our personal ph no
    Well then probably solved . . . Turn off your work phone

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    Quote Originally Posted by paul2626 View Post
    Its the life you choose so you have to deal with it!!! No one is holding a gun to your head making you read the messages.... Ring your provider they should be able to switch off texts!! Also i have a job where i have a work phone which is possible to get calls 24/7 as i travel a lot with work. When im not working/off the phone goes off!!! Its a personal choice to switch it off or leave it on... If you choose to leave it on then deal with the calls and texts you receive!!
    Turning off the phone does not stop text messages coming in when the phone is turned back on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by paul2626 View Post
    Yes it is that simple..... One phone for clients and one phone for friend's!!! When you aren't working turn off your phone so you're not annoyed and if you are that worried about certain individual's then give them your personal number for emergencies!!! My god its not rocket science!!!
    My numbers are on my work phone. If a 'friend' or any other Escort I may know as an acquaintance wants to know if I met a chap who has said I can vouch for him, then that is the phone I need to use to find that number and verify the information. Also... when I do leave this job, then I will give my 'regular' number to maybe one or two people that I want to keep in my life. I'm afraid the rest I will say goodbye to and thank you for the good times, but that chapter of my life is over now.

    Also, some are not the friend they make out to be and you find this out later on over time. If you gave out your normal phone number to anyone who was 'friendly' towards you, then you could find yourself in a whole heap of trouble. It's not worth the risk.

    Nothing is black and white and when you are in this profession you should never take anything for granted. That doesn't mean you can't be there for other people and help when you can. There are some of us that don't get on, but we will still share information if it keeps us safe, but keep your own safety first, so the work phone is the best to use.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CurvaceousKate View Post
    My numbers are on my work phone. If a 'friend' or any other Escort I may know as an acquaintance wants to know if I met a chap who has said I can vouch for him, then that is the phone I need to use to find that number and verify the information. Also... when I do leave this job, then I will give my 'regular' number to maybe one or two people that I want to keep in my life. I'm afraid the rest I will say goodbye to and thank you for the good times, but that chapter of my life is over now.

    Also, some are not the friend they make out to be and you find this out later on over time. If you gave out your normal phone number to anyone who was 'friendly' towards you, then you could find yourself in a whole heap of trouble. It's not worth the risk.

    Nothing is black and white and when you are in this profession you should never take anything for granted. That doesn't mean you can't be there for other people and help when you can. There are some of us that don't get on, but we will still share information if it keeps us safe, but keep your own safety first, so the work phone is the best to use.
    Im genuinely glad to hear that

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