I don't know many 34 year old males that think of themselves as mature lol. Even in normal life you're allowed to apply the 10 year rule, i.e. dating 10 years below or above your age is acceptable. I'm guessing this is from 28 onward mind.
I quite like that men of 34 are my toyboys.44 are nearer my equals and 54 are my mature
and that is still pushing it for men, cos let's face it... they don't really ever grow up!