what if fall for a escort

[Dutch1968]

But didn't you pay her to be your friend for an hour (or 30min or whatever time)? And by paying her, she created that experience for you. If it was for free, then that is a different thing altogether...

Lerxst, I am not disputing the fact that this is a business transaction, what I am saying is that I personally prefer to allow myself to consider the girl as a friend. This allows me to maximise the enjoyment from the experience. I am not saying it is how everyone should behave, merely that I prefer it this way and can empathise with Tom !

[bettercallsaul]

Lerxst, I am not disputing the fact that this is a business transaction, what I am saying is that I personally prefer to allow myself to consider the girl as a friend. This allows me to maximise the enjoyment from the experience. I am not saying it is how everyone should behave, merely that I prefer it this way and can empathise with Tom !

You are right,and wrong,the problem from reading To's posts is he is in love and the lady is taking advantage of it,being friends/friendly like you describe would only make the appointment,but that's not what is happening in this case.

[Hedgehog]

Some of us do , of some of our guys

Though it's a business -- and I and my clients keep strictly to the boundaries -- , we are also human.

: We always talk about the 'click factor' -- well , when you've spent many occasions intimate time with the same person ,

hours at a time , I think it's inevitable ( and welcome in my my world ) to move just hair's breadth from the 'strictly

business' , and you might get to know the other person a bit , and might give a bit more away about yourself : might that

be about a boating passion or about your dogs , or about your travels , and in some cases about your lives' joys and troubles.

Imo it is possible to care about another person ( my client ) whle religiously observing the boundaries of our business :

I never meet a client unless I am paid for my time ; though occasionally I am more generous with my time ,

it is always at my leisure and pleasure , to benefit me ; I will not allow anyone to 'fall in love' with me : if I feel someone's

losing their footing , I have a talk with them , and if needed , cut them loose .. with much sadness as it may be.


In this thread ye boys make it sound like we're all some heartless cruel gold digger users.

I'm really sorry that's your escort life experience.

Not all of us are like that.

Some of my guys are actually quite close to my heart. x

Well said Stephanie.

i was a mad bastard all my life not going to change now,

I don't know if you are single/in a relationship/married or whatever. But if you are looking for romance there is a lot of nice girls out there, fair enough most won't be gracing a modelling catalogue that the ladies on here would be, but great funny girls nevertheless.

I know no-one can choose who they fall in love with, but it is likely not going to work out for you - sorry to say.

[Lucy Chambers]

You make us sound like predatory spiders

If you are a warm person in life you are going to be that way in your work life I think, plus Stephanie is right, it's impossible to see lots of a person and not get to know them and like them too. Unfortunately though, client / escort relationships aren't a very good idea, it's not a good basis for a relationship. A nice person would set you straight in that as soon as they realised that you were having serious thoughts about them, and nasty one would take advantage of you, with escorts that usually by asking for large sums of money. I like to think most people are intrinsically nice.

[Dutch1968]

You are right,and wrong,the problem from reading To's posts is he is in love and the lady is taking advantage of it,being friends/friendly like you describe would only make the appointment,but that's not what is happening in this case.

Admittedly taking up residence on the girls doorstep and declaring your undying love is not the brightest thing to do, but it looks to me as though TR knows that.

[HairyPotter]

there is a escort that i cant stop thinking about,day and night,

Oh Tom, I do hope this doesn't go on FOREVER

[Hard Lover]

That a very poor view of our industry , of your experiences.

Have you really been let down so many times ??

I feel bad for you if that is so x

Yes,sorry to say I have,don't get me wrong after the 1or 2 times,I played them as much as they played me,drip feeding them while they never catching the big prize....eventually there patience always wears out,the mask slips and you get the nasty escort.

[EIFII]

Yes,sorry to say I have,don't get me wrong after the 1or 2 times,I played them as much as they played me,drip feeding them while they never catching the big prize....eventually there patience always wears out,the mask slips and you get the nasty escort.

And what prize would that be, Mr Hard Lover? Receiving it hard from you???? Lucky girls

[Playitsam]

Ah lads is there no romance left in you at all .

Every thing is possible !

Go for it Tom ....

[funlover12]

But didn't you pay her to be your friend for an hour (or 30min or whatever time)? And by paying her, she created that experience for you. If it was for free, then that is a different thing altogether...

Lerxst, I am not disputing the fact that this is a business transaction, what I am saying is that I personally prefer to allow myself to consider the girl as a friend. This allows me to maximise the enjoyment from the experience. I am not saying it is how everyone should behave, merely that I prefer it this way and can empathise with Tom !

and thats the key, deep down you know, but you let yourself go and believe the fantasy because that can make the experience all the better if you know the deal and can control yourself and think of yourself in a movie, acting a part the same way the escort does

I was holding back saying this, but these guys already burst the bubble before I did