beware of this man

[warmcome]

he was probably brought up bad and was probably abused himself. i think support
and guidance would serve him and society best?

[Meursault]

Interesting

Everyone is urging violence on this thread. History has always taught us that violence begets violence. Society needs to find a different solution to this situation. It is a fact that most a users were in fact abused themselves. We need to protect children and care for the unfortunate who are abuse and ensure that the abuser is never given the opportunity to repeat their heinous crime but we must act as a moral and caring society as nothing else will end the cycle.

Interesting also that no one seems to object to the violence been screamed at women in the OP's signature! Is it only violence against children you guys object to? Against women is OK then?

I can't imagine an escort will feel too safe when they realise he's the guy in her apartment.....

No wonder the authorities are bringing in a law against clients when mysoginist rants like this are tolerated - and even welcomed by one other poster - on this, the country's most popular Escort site. I understand no escort railing against it, though I'd argue that they should but they're probably worried about attracting ill feeling and losing business.

Any opponent of legalising escorting can just point to one of the most prolific posters on here and their argument is practically won!

All suggestions of violence should be rejected.

the jails were full under soviet totalitarianism and they are still full under democracy because when you give the people the freedom they desire they abuse it.

Reforming one man isnt going to make the slightest difference to another man because they are two different men.

The way to tackle it is like they did in the soviet regime under stalin: Make them fear the consequences of their actions. If one is so afraid of the consequences of their actions they will not act on them. It wont happen though because society needs to be free for a country to grow economically.

For posters as well saying he was abused when young: sad yes but it does not forgive the monster he has become.
Like frankl said despite what is done to a man he can still choose how to respond.

[Meursault]

he was probably brought up bad and was probably abused himself. i think support
and guidance would serve him and society best?

hes already loitering around a school after probably receiving counselling in prison.....hes clearly not reformed

[meath chap]

Interesting

Everyone is urging violence on this thread. History has always taught us that violence begets violence. Society needs to find a different solution to this situation. It is a fact that most a users were in fact abused themselves. We need to protect children and care for the unfortunate who are abuse and ensure that the abuser is never given the opportunity to repeat their heinous crime but we must act as a moral and caring society as nothing else will end the cycle.

Interesting also that no one seems to object to the violence been screamed at women in the OP's signature! Is it only violence against children you guys object to? Against women is OK then?

I can't imagine an escort will feel too safe when they realise he's the guy in her apartment.....

No wonder the authorities are bringing in a law against clients when mysoginist rants like this are tolerated - and even welcomed by one other poster - on this, the country's most popular Escort site. I understand no escort railing against it, though I'd argue that they should but they're probably worried about attracting ill feeling and losing business.

Any opponent of legalising escorting can just point to one of the most prolific posters on here and their argument is practically won!

All suggestions of violence should be rejected.

Bluefan my signature comes from a youtube sensation.a person been interviewed on camera would randomly shout out fuck her right in the pussy.look it up

[SmallHorn]

Bluefan my signature comes from a youtube sensation.a person been interviewed on camera would randomly shout out fuck her right in the pussy.look it up

Let that sink in

[bluefan1]

Let that sink in

So, he picked a random, violently offensive rant against women from YouTube and thought it was clever and deserving of propagation on an escort site and added it - in screaming - capital letters to his signature. And you think that's funny and clever! White-knighting an idiot is just adding plain silly.

Maybe pause for thought now?

Incidentally, The 'sink' thing was dull originally and is thoroughly nauseating with repeated use. Did you pick that up from the internet too?

It's hard to be clever and funny.

[SmallHorn]

So, he picked a random, violently offensive rant against women from YouTube and thought it was clever and deserving of propagation on an escort site and added it - in screaming - capital letters to his signature. And you think that's funny and clever! White-knighting an idiot is just adding plain silly.

Maybe pause for thought now?

Incidentally, The 'sink' thing was dull originally and is thoroughly nauseating with repeated use. Did you pick that up from the internet too?

It's hard to be clever and funny.

Hahaha you are one seriously dry shite mate

[SmallHorn]

I was thinking of losing the signature...

Think I'll keep it now

[meath chap]

So, he picked a random, violently offensive rant against women from YouTube and thought it was clever and deserving of propagation on an escort site and added it - in screaming - capital letters to his signature. And you think that's funny and clever! White-knighting an idiot is just adding plain silly.

Maybe pause for thought now?

Incidentally, The 'sink' thing was dull originally and is thoroughly nauseating with repeated use. Did you pick that up from the internet too?

It's hard to be clever and funny.

Your just at a different stage in your life where nothing is funny.your hijacking a thread with pure sileage

[Stephanie]

he was probably brought up bad and was probably abused himself. i think support
and guidance would serve him and society best?

My instant gut reaction to anyone who abuses a child or an animal is : let me offer guidance for his head through

a noose , and let the rope support him while he last kicks ..

However ,

the jails were full under soviet totalitarianism and they are still full under democracy because when you give the people the freedom they desire they abuse it.

Reforming one man isnt going to make the slightest difference to another man because they are two different men.

The way to tackle it is like they did in the soviet regime under stalin: Make them fear the consequences of their actions. If one is so afraid of the consequences of their actions they will not act on them. It wont happen though because society needs to be free for a country to grow economically.

For posters as well saying he was abused when young: sad yes but it does not forgive the monster he has become.
Like frankl said despite what is done to a man he can still choose how to respond.

Even in totalitarian regimes , child abuse of all kind is still rampant. If anything it might be even more pervasive.

All the existential frustrations and upset are always taken out on the weakest , on those who have no voice.

The difference is , that in totalitarian regimes no one hears about these abuses , as the propaganda machine is

so effective and so ingrained , that 'bad news' simply do not make it to the headlines. You , me , and even their own

citizens simply do not know about it.

Do you think there's no child abuse in N Korea !? Or in China ? China has executed more persons in each of the last years

than any other country , and yet there's been a spate of knife attacks on preschools , dozens of little children killed ; and

on train commuters , etc. Clearly the threat of summary execution is not a repellant to heinous crimes.

Let that sink in -- to sarcastically borrow a phrase from another.

hes already loitering around a school after probably receiving counselling in prison.....hes clearly not reformed

With all my pertinent education and experience , pedophiles simply cannot be reformed.

Imo pedophila is simply the attraction and a sexdrive that is directed at the wrong segment of society.

Up until the not too distant past , homosexuality was regarded a mental illness. Now we now that for the most part it is innate.

This argument does not excuse pedophiliac behavior (!) , it is simply an effort to try to explain the mechanism.

: Think of your own sexdrive : you are attracted to women / men , yes ? Can you change that at will ?

How about if someone told you that from today on it is wrong , it is against the law illegal to follow through on your

sex drive / sexual attraction ?

Effectively this would mean lifelong celibacy. Could you , would you do it ?

As a decent human being if you understood that your actions would be hurtful and damaging to the other party ,

you would refrain. Clearly not every person is a decent human being , but I am convinced that there are

many many pedophiles out there who do not offend. I'm sure it must be a lifelong struggle.


The though is repulsive , the act is inexcusable. But I do not think the thought and desire can be eradicated.

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia

"Is it only violence against children you guys object to? Against women is OK then?" I don't know where you got this but otherwise I agree with you 100%

I don't know what the solution is with people who have sex/want to with children is?

My gut reaction and my thought out view is I want to hurt them/punish them.

I don't know is being a pedophile a predisposed condition? or is it a sick fetish?

If it is the latter WTF? And what do we do as a society?

Imo mandatory 24/7 monitoring of all convicted pedophiles would be the most effective method in preventing further

assaults , crimes against children. Monitoring the school in the neighborhood (where the offender was seen leering in

windows) is simplistic and non-effective. While the nice gardai are keeping an eye on the school , the offender

can just mosy on over to another area or other town , and do his misdeeds.

Monitoring of the offender (!) is the key.

Further , I feel that pedophiles who willingly come forward to the police or social services before committing a

crime should be given all the social psychological support possible , in order to avoid them becoming an offender.

This might mean intense extensive counseling , perhaps housing assistance where they could be moved to a

neighborhood without schools etc.

So : two pronged prescription -- constant monitoring and zero tolerance of those who have offended , and full-on

social support of those who are decent enough to struggle against their desires and who aim to not abuse.

Nothing else will work imo. You can hang one high , it will not deter the next.


Also , if there was open acknowledgement of this condition as a disease , the secrecy surrounding it might diminish ,

pre-offenders might be more willing to come forward.

And then of course there are still medical options of chemical castrations for those willing . ( an unwilling individual

who is subjected to chemical castration has many ways about it to counter the effects of the hormones injected ,

thereby nullifying its effects. In individuals who have offended , and have no clear intent to modify their behavior ,

only physical castration might show any result. Then they might turn into murderers if left to their own devices. )


This my humble opinion x