Getting Laid

[Meursault]

tbh lads most women are not into one night stands or flings......think about it if you were a woman would you go home with some lad you have only known for maybe two hours

i think as well that reality tv shows like jersey show have soiled our opinions as to what happens.....its not like that in the real world

[paul_m]

you don't need say why, but do you guess the reason for this irrational aversion?

No I would want to talk but can't because of shyness and not knowing what to say(head goes blank)

Not always the case but a lot of times, depends on situation

[Withoutaclue]

How hard or easy do you find it? I am extremely shy so approaching women is very difficult for me.

I am so bad that I have been asked by some girls if I was gay

The more the try, the lucked you get.

Lots of good advice for others here. If you don't try, you won't get anywhere.

[warmcome]

it' a tough one, Paul. habit reinforced over years and backed up with worry and anxiety.

enter Hypnotherapist-it will cost, might take time, but you had better start.

[borkeman]

I can't see the point of putting pressure on yourself unless your a grade A stud. Afterall there are escorts out there to hook up with and the majority of women out on a saturday nite don't want any random mick trying it on with them.
Thats why I don't bother, I'm out for the craic not to disgrace myself onfront of any bird.
If your putting pressure on yourself and appear desperate your mind will go blank, it does not work.

[Khujo]

It's not called getting lucky for nothing

[borkeman]

I've had the same view for a long time and its no different outside of Dublin, tis the same in any town or city.
All these hen parties take over the pubs and clubs, its like you have be sorry for crashing a party you did'nt know anything about.
Look at most of these birds anyway, you would not get the horn if your life depended on it especially after a few beers

Generally speaking I find Dublin to be a very hard place to approach women.
Most women here socialise in large groups and their bitch shields are usually very high. The quality of Irish women in general isn't great either in my opinion, especially compared to the rest of Europe. Put your average Irish girl next to your average Slovak girl, for example, and you'll immediately see the difference.
I also find that they tend to go for the most attractive and extrovert men, even if they aren't great looking or all that out going themselves. So overall, getting laid here is pretty damn hard and probably not even worth the chase in most cases. I usually only approach foreign girls on a night out because they usually aren't as paranoid as the locals and usually more interesting and easier to talk to......but more importantly they are FAR easier to get into bed

[Khujo]

I've had the same view for a long time and its no different outside of Dublin, tis the same in any town or city.
All these hen parties take over the pubs and clubs, its like you have be sorry for crashing a party you did'nt know anything about.
Look at most of these birds anyway, you would not get the horn if your life depended on it especially after a few beers

Yeah it's fairly grim out there but, to be fare we do have some very attractive ladies in Ireland, but unfortunately they are few and far between.
I think we have a horrible combination of Catholic guilt, too much alcohol consumption, poor diets, lack of sun and a backwards island mentality that has us men spending more money on sex then anywhere else in Europe.
It's mad really if I think about. I can go on a weekend break to places like Amsterdam, Liverpool or Prague with my mates and hook up with girls in bars and nightclubs (not escorts, just regular girls) yet can't do that when I come home to Ireland.
Granted I could probably score a fat ugly chick as there are plenty of them around, but why would I when I can pay to hook up with some foreign escort that looks like a model?

[warmcome]

when i go out, all i hope for/would agree to is a phone no. i look good.

[AmantAmant365]

You should be able to get some experience in this fine playground will many of the lovely ladies able to give you good pointers.. and improve your confidence..
Fear is the root of all evil.. just talk to them as you would a friend or sister of a friend and you'll be fine. What happens next may surprise you but getting laid should not be your primary agenda just yet :-)
You can get laid anytime you want via this site..

How hard or easy do you find it? I am extremely shy so approaching women is very difficult for me.

I am so bad that I have been asked by some girls if I was gay