That is common. Those guys obviously do require OWO but please don't tell me you have bareback because your willy goes soft with a condom on? If that's the case then please stop seeing escorts, go for a thorough check up, wait 3 months and go for another one then get yourself a girlfriend where you can have all the bareback sex you want. I personally think bareback should only be done between 2 people in a relationship together.