Irish time wasters

[Kendra]

Stephanie, I would never normally text a client other than the day of the booking but in this case, because of my gut feeling....I told the client that I would text him when he arrives in Glasgow the nite before (for reassurance) so he was expecting my text. I would never text a client out of the blue unless given permission cause you never know what their home life situation is. Anyway, my gut feeling was right in this case.

[tom rambo]

u will find time wasters in every walk off life,and whatever work u do,and sometimes it will fuck up your day or night,

[Curvaceous Kate]

I appreciate that this is a huge frustration for escorts and Kendra's experience is a salutary example of how such messing ruined her revenue.

I do not however agree with the practice of requesting deposits. I have not been met with such a request as yet but do not think I would proceed to booking if asked. As you have said, the booking is a verbal contract and there has to be an element of good faith on both sides.

I have been let down on a number of occasions but have never felt the need to leave an N/A review. I have always felt that maybe the lady thought I was a time waster or just got a bad vibe about the booking. Her prerogative and her safety always paramount. I'm sure I have been double booked too but again, it's just the way of things. I merely don't contact again. Just a fact of life here.

However, easy for me to say as I lose no money from the failure of escorts who do not show the courtesy of cancelling appointments.

Personally I only ask for a deposit if someone has no client history, i.e. they can't give me a referral and they want to book in advance, book an outcall or an extended booking of more than an hour. On these occasions I feel that it is not wrong to ask for some kind of security.

If I'm to drive for 30 mins there and back to see a total stranger, not only are there there concerns that he may be an axe murder, but it could be a hoax and then I'm not just out of pocket for fuel costs, but I've also wasted an hour of my time on the road, so can't even pick up the phone to the next client to see them and with the longer bookings. If I know I have a longer booking I will either not work or see less people beforehand to make sure I'm fresh and have plenty of energy for them. I could potentially lose a whole days work based on a 'hope' the person would turn up.

So... you likely wouldn't be asked for a deposit from me either, but I have asked clients and clients do pay it. We can't all live on blind faith.

[whoseyourdaddy]

[QUOTE=Kendra;1433015]I would love to think they we could ask for a deposit because it would lower the timewasters but as much as we moan about timewasters, it's just an occupational hazard in this business and we kinda have to live with it.

There are unfortunately too many dishonest people in the world, not just this business that makes it unfair to ask a client for a deposit, it's just not the done thing HOWEVER if it's a client from another city wanting an outcall for an overnight booking or something then I would expect my travel to be paid in advance so I am not out of pocket for travelling to a timewaster.

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Yes, your final point is well made and one I hadn't considered.That would only be fair to expect.

Thanks

[Meursault]

Personally I only ask for a deposit if someone has no client history, i.e. they can't give me a referral and they want to book in advance, book an outcall or an extended booking of more than an hour. On these occasions I feel that it is not wrong to ask for some kind of security.

If I'm to drive for 30 mins there and back to see a total stranger, not only are there there concerns that he may be an axe murder, but it could be a hoax and then I'm not just out of pocket for fuel costs, but I've also wasted an hour of my time on the road, so can't even pick up the phone to the next client to see them and with the longer bookings. If I know I have a longer booking I will either not work or see less people beforehand to make sure I'm fresh and have plenty of energy for them. I could potentially lose a whole days work based on a 'hope' the person would turn up.

So... you likely wouldn't be asked for a deposit from me either, but I have asked clients and clients do pay it. We can't all live on blind faith.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Meursault... you know I'm your biggest fan

[Meursault]

Meursault... you know I'm your biggest fan

fatal attraction

[Curvaceous Kate]

fatal attraction

Shall I stock up the fridge now or later?

(No bunnies will be hurt during this flirtation!)

[Meursault]

Shall I stock up the fridge now or later?

(No bunnies will be hurt during this flirtation!)

[Curvaceous Kate]

Damn, there goes my reputation for giving a good GFE!!!