Irish time wasters

[Kendra]

Ah kendra, I answer to no one, if I had a boss and he deducted my wages she/he would get my full length up their ass........of my wand that is

Well there you go. I think some guys think we've nothing else to do other than be messed about by people who think their time is far more important than ours. Very frustrating.

[Curvaceous Kate]

A booking is a verbal contract and should be treated as such. You would not break a verbal contract without good reason for most transactions, so why here? Many businesses charge you if you do not turn up and rightly so if you do it last minute or without any warning. If you book a hotel, you can cancel, but often you can't cancel the day before or on the day you are meant to arrive without forfitting some money. I think some people don't value the booking they have made, because they will not lose out financially.

I once caught a client out who had booked me well in advance and given me a reference that was confirmed etc. Not only did he not turn up for his booking, but he rang me for the location and called me a different name. Basically he changed his mind and booked someone else, but didn't have the decency to cancel our booking.

Rumour has it he is or was a moderator here too. What he forgot by giving me a reference, is that the lady in question knew his identity. You would think the mods would at least treat Escorts with respect.

[ZVN60]

Just to clarify matters: how do Escorts classify someone as a time waster? I would have classed one as being someone who didn't turn up for an appointment and didn't bother notifying the Escort.

For example: let's say I phoned someone at 7:15 and made an appointment for 8.

But when I leave the house at 7:45, I get a call from my boss asking me to come into work. So I immediately phone/text the lady and cancel.

Would that be within the realm of acceptability, as I let you know I couldn't make it? Or would I be marked down as a time waster?

[Kendra]

Just to clarify matters: how do Escorts classify someone as a time waster? I would have classed one as being someone who didn't turn up for an appointment and didn't bother notifying the Escort.

For example: let's say I phoned someone at 7:15 and made an appointment for 8.

But when I leave the house at 7:45, I get a call from my boss asking me to come into work. So I immediately phone/text the lady and cancel.

Would that be within the realm of acceptability, as I let you know I couldn't make it? Or would I be marked down as a time waster?

I would call a timewaster someone who doesn't turn up or cancel.

Or someone who confirms their appointment then doesn't show up.

If a new client cancels me twice in a row, he is a timewaster in my book so he will not get a third chance, I tend to give people who cancel once a second chance but not a third.

And I tend to call a person a timewaster like the one I had today, I knew in my gut he was going to cancel so I text him last nite, he confirms then cancels today so I wouldn't take another appointment from someone like that.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Just to clarify matters: how do Escorts classify someone as a time waster? I would have classed one as being someone who didn't turn up for an appointment and didn't bother notifying the Escort.

For example: let's say I phoned someone at 7:15 and made an appointment for 8.

But when I leave the house at 7:45, I get a call from my boss asking me to come into work. So I immediately phone/text the lady and cancel.

Would that be within the realm of acceptability, as I let you know I couldn't make it? Or would I be marked down as a time waster?

What Kendra said and also taking into account if you have met before and if they are normally reliable. If you have a client you have met several times without a hitch, then a once off as you described is not going to get you blocked or thought of as a timewaster, but if you try a second time and do it again, then you need to think about what conditions are you are trying to book under and if you need to make sure your time is your own first.

[Stephanie]

Cool, now if u could organise the weather to be good tomorrow, I'd be happy

merci beaucoup

My powers are limited ,

but I'll say a prayer right before I fall asleep xx

How's that weather working out for you ?

[Stephanie]

I would call a timewaster someone who doesn't turn up or cancel.

Or someone who confirms their appointment then doesn't show up.

If a new client cancels me twice in a row, he is a timewaster in my book so he will not get a third chance, I tend to give people who cancel once a second chance but not a third.

And I tend to call a person a timewaster like the one I had today, I knew in my gut he was going to cancel so I text him last nite, he confirms then cancels today so I wouldn't take another appointment from someone like that.

I wouldn't do that (!!) ,

but agree with the rest of the post x

[whoseyourdaddy]

It's not so easy for you unless you have an irish phone for working in Ireland, but in this kind of case I would ask for a deposit. TW's generally don't like to pay them. Alternatively if you ever intended on working in Ireland, you could pick up an O2 money card for Ireland and get them to put the deposit on there.

I appreciate that this is a huge frustration for escorts and Kendra's experience is a salutary example of how such messing ruined her revenue.

I do not however agree with the practice of requesting deposits. I have not been met with such a request as yet but do not think I would proceed to booking if asked. As you have said, the booking is a verbal contract and there has to be an element of good faith on both sides.

I have been let down on a number of occasions but have never felt the need to leave an N/A review. I have always felt that maybe the lady thought I was a time waster or just got a bad vibe about the booking. Her prerogative and her safety always paramount. I'm sure I have been double booked too but again, it's just the way of things. I merely don't contact again. Just a fact of life here.

However, easy for me to say as I lose no money from the failure of escorts who do not show the courtesy of cancelling appointments.

[Kendra]

What Kendra said and also taking into account if you have met before and if they are normally reliable. If you have a client you have met several times without a hitch, then a once off as you described is not going to get you blocked or thought of as a timewaster, but if you try a second time and do it again, then you need to think about what conditions are you are trying to book under and if you need to make sure your time is your own first.

This is what gets me, I get guys cancel last minute because something came up at work and so therefor is obviously more important than seeing us....not realising that this is our work and so therefor just as important as their work is to them. I think some think we do this just for the fun of it and nothing else. So I would much prefer for my clients only to book me if it's their own free time or they are sure that nothing more important will crop up. If someone can't make me that promise then they are better off booking someone who is available at short notice for when they are available x

[Kendra]

I appreciate that this is a huge frustration for escorts and Kendra's experience is a salutary example of how such messing ruined her revenue.

I do not however agree with the practice of requesting deposits. I have not been met with such a request as yet but do not think I would proceed to booking if asked. As you have said, the booking is a verbal contract and there has to be an element of good faith on both sides.

I have been let down on a number of occasions but have never felt the need to leave an N/A review. I have always felt that maybe the lady thought I was a time waster or just got a bad vibe about the booking. Her prerogative and her safety always paramount. I'm sure I have been double booked too but again, it's just the way of things. I merely don't contact again. Just a fact of life here.

However, easy for me to say as I lose no money from the failure of escorts who do not show the courtesy of cancelling appointments.

I would love to think they we could ask for a deposit because it would lower the timewasters but as much as we moan about timewasters, it's just an occupational hazard in this business and we kinda have to live with it.

There are unfortunately too many dishonest people in the world, not just this business that makes it unfair to ask a client for a deposit, it's just not the done thing HOWEVER if it's a client from another city wanting an outcall for an overnight booking or something then I would expect my travel to be paid in advance so I am not out of pocket for travelling to a timewaster.

xx