Are escorts all self taught?

[Kendra]

No idea why you would make this comparision, I do not see that relation at all, why would you jump to that conclusion.

No what I meant by that statement is that the generalisation you made is as bad as the generalisation that lots of people seem to believe that all sex workers have been abused as a child.....that was all I meant.

[Kendra]

Sorry bollocks - what a strange sentence!! lol
I didnt answer your question

Self taught in how to be an escort
Me yes, I started doing massage and liked the very strange gents so went on to escort, this forum has taught me quite a lot about what not to ask - lol never ask "are you married" seemed such an innocent question in general conversation but a time and a place for everything.
Same as a client should never ask, "have you been busy" followed by "can I be your last client today" two innocent questions - put them together and I think "robber"
Learning is good

And btw Josephine, I really don't want any disagreements with you as I think there are enough mean girls on here and all escorts should stick together giving the nature of this business......I just had to point out that the statement you made was really silly in my opinion about girls at 13 knowing about sex must have been abused as a child. It's just too much of a generalisation to make x

[johnb59]

I thought this question rather odd to be honest, being taught by another escort, picking up tips from boyfriends, watching porn etc might help but the lady still has to go out and do the physical side of it? Like in any professional practice makes perfect and you learn something everyday? So I think it is self taught and some are better than others as in any job

[Clyde]

Too many fingers in too many pies...!!

[Rachel Divine]

Too many fingers in too many pies...!!

Formula 1 this weekend ... the memories

[Me4711]

I am sorry but some of these threads as of late about escorts not being human beings are really starting to make me wonder.......

Don't you think we have lives outside of escorting? How else do you think we learned how to give a handjob? We didn't go to university for is so we learned the same way your wife learned how to give a handjob......with experience.

You say that many escorts you have met have been in failed relationships......well I would put my money on the fact that ALL escorts have been in failed relationships unless they married the first person they every got with and are still currently with that person.

Escorts are normal human being a just doing a job. We fart, we poop, our poop stinks......we are REAL PEOPLE!

Regards the massage, yes some do a course on it, others don't. Some have better social skills than others but this goes for people on all walks of life, not just escorts.

Kendra a Young Chap & his girlfriend once said that when they have sex they dont feel "The Earth Moving" ... so they decided to change that .... so NOW have sex on a moving BULL DOZER ...

[Catriona]

I know some do massaging, and have diplomas. But do even these get taught how to give a "Happy Ending"

Or have they just learned the tricks of the trade, from boyfriends, that they dumped, or dont want anymore

Many escorts that I have met have been in failed relationships

( as have men)

I went to escorting school - did ya not know that? Some of us even have the escorting gene, so that we are destined to always have failed relationships and traumatic childhoods.

[Dub Lad]

I know some do massaging, and have diplomas. But do even these get taught how to give a "Happy Ending"

Or have they just learned the tricks of the trade, from boyfriends, that they dumped, or dont want anymore

Many escorts that I have met have been in failed relationships

( as have men)

I'm not really sure if this is an actual real question as there is so much negative connotations, failed relationships, boyfriends they don't want?

It's almost as if your trying to deflect your own misery in the hopes others feel as miserable by saying they got taught from failed relationships and by answering they are validating your misery.

[Curvaceous Kate]

And btw Josephine, I really don't want any disagreements with you as I think there are enough mean girls on here and all escorts should stick together giving the nature of this business......I just had to point out that the statement you made was really silly in my opinion about girls at 13 knowing about sex must have been abused as a child. It's just too much of a generalisation to make x

I'm glad you made it, as I was deciding on if I should say something or not, when I read on and saw you beat me to it. I personally know someone who is an adult now, who made her bf have sex with her at 13. They broke up, because he was not ready yet and although they did have intimacy, he was not handling the emotional side well, but she was fine with it. Years later he was still infatuated with her, but she had moved on.

This kind of goes to show that people are very protective of girls and women and their sexual experiences, but often men are just as susceptible to the pressures of sex and being involved in sex at a young age.

I can also tell you that the girl in this situation was not sexually abused, she was just mentally and physically ready.

[emilyuk]

My first escorting experience was not by myself, a girlfriend who was doing it asked me if I fancied doing a two girl with her I thought about it, I was 19 sexually active for 2 years so I thought why not, I am bi sexual and been playing with my friend for 2 years the idea of a threesome sounded exciting and then she said id get paid, I thought about it and thought id hit the jackpot.
Needless to say i got the escorting bug and have been doing it on and off ever since. I love it, the buzz of meeting new people and living out their fantasies as well as my own. Ive done a massage course so I can offer a real massage to my clients but no escorting school for me as I had a private tutor ;-)

relationship wise, ive had great relationships but they haven't worked, ive been in my current one for 2.5 years now and things couldn't be better.