How old is too old to see an escort.

[Kendra]

Thanks for that. Recently I've been worrying that a 42 year old (me) visiting a 24 year old escort was slightly creepy. I've only been doing this a couple of months so I'm still relatively inexperienced. I've probably been over-thinking the issue to be honest.

Glad to hear that young escorts aren't completely freaked out by the sight of a more mature aged punter visiting them. Your subsequent posts prove I'm still way too young to be worrying about this issue.

Some people are naturally creepy.... Doesn't matter how old they are. I've been working a few years now and probably only met about a handful of clients where they have literally made my skin crawl with how creepy they were so it's not common at all. An older gent choosing to see a younger escort is just paying for a service like going to get your hair cut, it's perfectly normal and not creepy. Well that's my opinion anyway x

[funlover12]

Why do you always answer a question with a question ?

Do you do this all the time or just your online personality ?

I thought people grew out of ask why.....

Are you a lawyer or something

People are here to have fun and entitled to their views.

was a fair question tbh, what you said wouldnt be the norm so he asked why, you got quite defensive about it which is even more odd learn to ignore stuff you dont want to answer, it makes internet life so much easier
ignoring onthe net is not like when you are standing infront of someone when they ask you a question, in that situation it wont go down well to hit them in the face but the net is different, in order to survive you close the lid ect (see the metaphor...no? ...bah...)

[Kendra]

Although I should say that although I've had little experience in person with creepy men, I have tonnes of creepy men call me, text me and email me. A guy phoning you while he's wanking just to hear your voice is creepy and I get that quite often and more often than not, they are young lads so being a mature man seeing a younger girl definitely doesn't make you a creep. Being a creep makes your a creep lol x

[willie wacker]

Although I should say that although I've had little experience in person with creepy men, I have tonnes of creepy men call me, text me and email me. A guy phoning you while he's wanking just to hear your voice is creepy and I get that quite often and more often than not, they are young lads so being a mature man seeing a younger girl definitely doesn't make you a creep. Being a creep makes your a creep lol x

I take some of the older men are prob gents while some of the younger one are creeps?
There is a stigma now in Ireland that on older man with a young women is now a perv!! while 50 years or more it was quiet common for older men to marry younger women, in fact 100 years ago the ladies got married at 18 to men in their 40,s

[Klittyliker]

Although I should say that although I've had little experience in person with creepy men, I have tonnes of creepy men call me, text me and email me. A guy phoning you while he's wanking just to hear your voice is creepy and I get that quite often and more often than not, they are young lads so being a mature man seeing a younger girl definitely doesn't make you a creep. Being a creep makes your a creep lol x

Thanks Babe, You've put my mind at rest. As I said earlier I was probably just overthinking the whole thing.

A couple of escorts have told me about the whole "phone sex" thing with people ringing them asking them what they're wearing/ what they like doing etc. Can't believe what you girls have to put up with sometimes!!

[Kendra]

I take some of the older men are prob gents while some of the younger one are creeps?
There is a stigma now in Ireland that on older man with a young women is now a perv!! while 50 years or more it was quiet common for older men to marry younger women, in fact 100 years ago the ladies got married at 18 to men in their 40,s

No I wouldn't like to make a generalisation like that and call all young guys creeps cause that's not what I was saying, I was just saying that I get lots of younger lads call me up while wanking down the phone. I had to take voicemail off my phone because of the amount of people wanking into my answering machine. You get creeps of all ages but I think they are naturally just like that, if someone sounds creepy to me then I will avoid them which is why I have little experience of creepy men in person.

But the point of what I was saying is that an older man seeing a younger escort is not creepy.

Also remember we're not talking about real life here, we're talking about a private intimate service between 2 adults regardless of age. I would personally think a 20 year old and a 60 year old is very odd in real life, they would have nothing in common and would be at completely different stages in their life whereas a 60 year old man paying a 20 year old escort for sex is a mutual, private arrangement.

xx

[willie wacker]

No I wouldn't like to make a generalisation like that and call all young guys creeps cause that's not what I was saying, I was just saying that I get lots of younger lads call me up while wanking down the phone. I had to take voicemail off my phone because of the amount of people wanking into my answering machine. You get creeps of all ages but I think they are naturally just like that, if someone sounds creepy to me then I will avoid them which is why I have little experience of creepy men in person.

But the point of what I was saying is that an older man seeing a younger escort is not creepy.

Also remember we're not talking about real life here, we're talking about a private intimate service between 2 adults regardless of age. I would personally think a 20 year old and a 60 year old is very odd in real life, they would have nothing in common and would be at completely different stages in their life whereas a 60 year old man paying a 20 year old escort for sex is a mutual, private arrangement.

xx

I don,t think I put my point across right, should i say you get creeps young and old , and gents young and old.
So it does,nt matter what age the client/escort is

[Klittyliker]

I'm going through a young phase...

Please expand, Are you feeling young or are the clients you're feeling young?

Thought you preferred the more mature gent anyway....

[Kendra]

I had a guy book me about 2 months ago, he sounded fine on the phone and in person was ok(ish) he wasn't violent or anything but the second I opened the door to him, I was still closing the front door and locking it so he had been in my company for less than a second, he had his hand up the back of my gown pawing at me. Then I turned round to greet him as I do where he have me a full on sloppy kiss and was touching my boobs whereas at this stage, I usually give a kiss on each sides of my clients cheek, I take them through to my room and offer them the bathroom and a drink then we get the paperwork out of the way and from then on we can get down to other things.

When I meet someone for the first time, I like to get a chat with them at the start before moving onto the sexual side of things, I don't clock watch so this isn't a time wasting tactic.....I just like to make it seem as natural as possible rather than a cheap paid encounter. It may not be for everyone but it's how I do things and my profile is all very clear on that.

When I finally managed to get his hands off me so that I could go to get him a drink, he followed me into my livingroom and kitchen (it's all open plan and has my private things lying around) which I didn't like and he came up behind me again and pawed at me again under my gown, I had to tell him to please wait in the room and when I got back to the room I had to tell him that he was too full on for me and that he has to back off a little.

So this man was not only 100 steps ahead of me but because of his gropping and creepy, sleazy energy, all he did was ruin it for himself because I couldn't relax and I couldn't even give the guy eye contact when he was on top of me trying to gaze into my eyes, it was like I had shut down and I was as stiff as a board. I just could not snap myself out of it. The things he was saying and the way he said it was creepy, everything he did was creepy!

Before anyone says, I know I should have asked him to leave but I felt slightly intimidated by him so I just put up with it but that hour felt like an eternity.

This has happened a handful of times in my whole escorting career so is luckily rare but it's horrible when it happens. There is no need to be so creepy in a situation like this where sex is on the cards. If only he could contain himself for 5 minutes then the whole service would have been completely different for the better.

[willie wacker]

I had a guy book me about 2 months ago, he sounded fine on the phone and in person was ok(ish) he wasn't violent or anything but the second I opened the door to him, I was still closing the front door and locking it so he had been in my company for less than a second, he had his hand up the back of my gown pawing at me. Then I turned round to greet him as I do where he have me a full on sloppy kiss and was touching my boobs whereas at this stage, I usually give a kiss on each sides of my clients cheek, I take them through to my room and offer them the bathroom and a drink then we get the paperwork out of the way and from then on we can get down to other things.

When I meet someone for the first time, I like to get a chat with them at the start before moving onto the sexual side of things, I don't clock watch so this isn't a time wasting tactic.....I just like to make it seem as natural as possible rather than a cheap paid encounter. It may not be for everyone but it's how I do things and my profile is all very clear on that.

When I finally managed to get his hands off me so that I could go to get him a drink, he followed me into my livingroom and kitchen (it's all open plan and has my private things lying around) which I didn't like and he came up behind me again and pawed at me again under my gown, I had to tell him to please wait in the room and when I got back to the room I had to tell him that he was too full on for me and that he has to back off a little.

So this man was not only 100 steps ahead of me but because of his gropping and creepy, sleazy energy, all he did was ruin it for himself because I couldn't relax and I couldn't even give the guy eye contact when he was on top of me trying to gaze into my eyes, it was like I had shut down and I was as stiff as a board. I just could not snap myself out of it. The things he was saying and the way he said it was creepy, everything he did was creepy!

Before anyone says, I know I should have asked him to leave but I felt slightly intimidated by him so I just put up with it but that hour felt like an eternity.

This has happened a handful of times in my whole escorting career so is luckily rare but it's horrible when it happens. There is no need to be so creepy in a situation like this where sex is on the cards. If only he could contain himself for 5 minutes then the whole service would have been completely different for the better.

Ya I like to sit down with the escort first for a quick chat, just so it feels a bit more natural