Nope, I've actually had men walk in and try to stuff 2 or 3 fingers into me when I am as dry as an Arabs sandle without any other warming up. I honestly tense up so badly when it comes to fingering because of so many bad experiences, I just can't bear it so I don't allow it.
In my private life it's different cause my partner would know how I like it and and sex is different with someone you love anyway.
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