What do you consider cheating?

**johnb59** · 26-09-14, 07:03

Originally Posted by SophieX

Cheating is cheating when in a relationship, whether that be texting/flirting/non-sexual meet/sexual meets.... anything done behind the back.

When the time comes that you're hiding your phone from your partner, then thats the time you're being deceitful & cheating IMHO.

Call me old fashioned.....

Your old fashioned like myself! I still do it though, come to be a bit of an addiction lol, I'm a serial cheater

**Clyde** · 26-09-14, 13:50

Going to see an escort without telling your regular lady and then not doing a review ..!!! Now thats cheating ehhh.

**Sexy Fernanda** · 26-09-14, 14:41

Originally Posted by NoBrain2

Seems a bit of a grey area here so im curious to know what people consider to be cheating.

It think most of us would agree that there would need to be some sort of emotional connection, in other words seeing escorts wouldnt be cheating as there is no emotional connection. However if someone in a relationship were to have a drunken one night stand with a random stranger they met in a pub or club, that would be to most people considered cheating.

Could even interacting on the forum be considered cheating? I know of a couple that broke up because the guy was caught texting another girl, i guess his girlfriend felt she couldn't trust him. Would posts here, pm's and time spent in chat or flirting on the forum be enough to cross the line from "no strings attached" sex to something more

Simple as that:

On the civil world,cheating its cheating . full stop.

on the escort world its not cheating,because the guy its ''paying'' for a service. but each to their own I suppose.

**Clint Eastdude** · 26-09-14, 20:09

Originally Posted by NoBrain2

Seems a bit of a grey area here so im curious to know what people consider to be cheating.

It think most of us would agree that there would need to be some sort of emotional connection, in other words seeing escorts wouldnt be cheating as there is no emotional connection. However if someone in a relationship were to have a drunken one night stand with a random stranger they met in a pub or club, that would be to most people considered cheating.

Could even interacting on the forum be considered cheating? I know of a couple that broke up because the guy was caught texting another girl, i guess his girlfriend felt she couldn't trust him. Would posts here, pm's and time spent in chat or flirting on the forum be enough to cross the line from "no strings attached" sex to something more

Hmmmm..lets see..so a man fucking another woman's brains out is not cheating...try explaining that to his wife dude...LOL

**NoBrain2** · 26-09-14, 20:20

Who the hell rated this thread?!

**tom rambo** · 26-09-14, 20:21

Originally Posted by Clint Eastdude

Hmmmm..lets see..so a man fucking another woman's brains out is not cheating...try explaining that to his wife dude...LOL

well if my wife will not give me sex,i have every write to have sex with a escort,but not a woman i meet out,

**willie wacker** · 26-09-14, 20:29

Originally Posted by tom rambo

well if my wife will not give me sex,i have every write to have sex with a escort,but not a woman i meet out,

Ya Tom you have every right to sex that is one i will not deny but unfortunately having sex with someone else without your wife,s consent is cheating.
Now I have no problem with men cheating , that,s their business but I just think people should not try and justify it on this forum.
I think better keep quiet, it,s just my opinion

**Clint Eastdude** · 26-09-14, 20:37

Originally Posted by tom rambo

well if my wife will not give me sex,i have every write to have sex with a escort,but not a woman i meet out,

Life is complicated..believe me I know and I feel many of the posters here know too..did not mean to offend dude.. Everyone has their own opinion on what constitutes "Unfaithful".. some women can be bitches..thats why all the best love songs have been written by men .Eg .NOTHING COMPARES TO YOU..Sung by a baldy head the ball and written by a man...Odds are stacked against men..see it every day ..lol need to put on some AC/DC and turn up the volume dude..

**willie wacker** · 26-09-14, 20:43

Originally Posted by Clint Eastdude

Life is complicated..believe me I know and I feel many of the posters here know too..did not mean to offend dude.. Everyone has their own opinion on what constitutes "Unfaithful".. some women can be bitches..thats why all the best love songs have been written by
e it every day ..lol need to put on some AC/DC and turn up the volume dude..

Here,s one for the men

**Alex.xx** · 26-09-14, 21:08

Originally Posted by willie wacker

Cheating is the 11th commandment
Thou shalt not get caught

and if they catch you redhanded, tell them it is not your hand

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