Can escort Respect punters?

[willieh]

Well I ain't gonna lie.....when I became an escort I did wonder how the hell I will ever be able to trust another man again (in my private life) because the majority of my clients are married or attached and they mostly visit me during their working hours BUT then I got to understand men a whole lot better in the sense where men are wired differently from women. Men need to have sex to function naturally.....it all goes back to the animal kingdom and women are naturally maternal.

So if I was married or in a relationship then I would never be able to forgive my partner if he had an affair as there is an emotional attachment there whereas I think I could forgive him if it's an escort because it's just sex and if he's not getting sex from me then I understand that he had to get it somewhere.

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I agree with you fully also and, as I have said elsewhere, your honesty is refreshing and is a breath of fresh air on here!

[Curvaceous Kate]

I would never get with a married or attached man in my private life, that's a different thing a together. The whole escort/client malarkey is just business x

That's exactly the way I feel. I'd never have an affair or make a play for someone who was attached, but have no concerns at all with relation to work, as it is purely a transaction.

[johnb59]

Well I ain't gonna lie.....when I became an escort I did wonder how the hell I will ever be able to trust another man again (in my private life) because the majority of my clients are married or attached and they mostly visit me during their working hours BUT then I got to understand men a whole lot better in the sense where men are wired differently from women. Men need to have sex to function naturally.....it all goes back to the animal kingdom and women are naturally maternal.

So if I was married or in a relationship then I would never be able to forgive my partner if he had an affair as there is an emotional attachment there whereas I think I could forgive him if it's an escort because it's just sex and if he's not getting sex from me then I understand that he had to get it somewhere.

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youve hit the nail bang on the head,being married myself i would not dream of having an affair,but seeing escorts is purely for the sex/but then my wife would not see it that way lol

[Me4711]

Can escorts respect married men and others in a relationship that use escorts?

I like it but its a contradiction in terms

[Stevenn]

Was with an escort recently who asked me if I was married. When I told her that I was not (I'm divorced about 6 years) she said 'That's good to hear, married man is not good for me'.

I was a little taken aback that she would be so forthcoming and open with her opinions like that (even though I agree with her that married men should not be visiting escorts) but she noticeably relaxed a lot more with me after this.

While I would never be with ANYONE else while I was in a relationship, I don't judge other guys that do it. I also get the feeling from reading the last 8 pages of this thread that the general belief is that MOST men who visit escorts are married. This shocked me.

[Kendra]

Was with an escort recently who asked me if I was married. When I told her that I was not (I'm divorced about 6 years) she said 'That's good to hear, married man is not good for me'.

I was a little taken aback that she would be so forthcoming and open with her opinions like that (even though I agree with her that married men should not be visiting escorts) but she noticeably relaxed a lot more with me after this.

While I would never be with ANYONE else while I was in a relationship, I don't judge other guys that do it. I also get the feeling from reading the last 8 pages of this thread that the general belief is that MOST men who visit escorts are married. This shocked me.

You say that you agree with her that married men shouldn't see escorts but then you say you don't judge? Contradiction ever so slightly lol.

She must be one skint escort if married men aren't for her!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Was with an escort recently who asked me if I was married. When I told her that I was not (I'm divorced about 6 years) she said 'That's good to hear, married man is not good for me'.

I was a little taken aback that she would be so forthcoming and open with her opinions like that (even though I agree with her that married men should not be visiting escorts) but she noticeably relaxed a lot more with me after this.

While I would never be with ANYONE else while I was in a relationship, I don't judge other guys that do it. I also get the feeling from reading the last 8 pages of this thread that the general belief is that MOST men who visit escorts are married. This shocked me.

Kind of contradicted yourself there.

[Stevenn]

Agreeing with someone's opinion and passing judgement on others are poles apart. It was a private conversation and certainly could not be taken as an unfair judgement of someone else's activities. I can disagree with someone's actions without condemning them for it.

I believe infidelity of any sort is wrong but every one has their own reasons for doing what they do.

[MayaX]

I respect my clients ..... I don't care if is married or not ...the point is to have good fun ♥♥♥!!!

[Curvaceous Kate]

Agreeing with someone's opinion and passing judgement on others are poles apart. It was a private conversation and certainly could not be taken as an unfair judgement of someone else's activities. I can disagree with someone's actions without condemning them for it.

I believe infidelity of any sort is wrong but every one has their own reasons for doing what they do.

If you had said you were indifferent, then I would agree with what you are saying now, but you actually said that you felt they should not be seeing escorts, so that is your judgement. The difference between yourself and the Escort is that you would not voice that opinion to anyone and I'm assuming you would not treat them differently for their actions, whilst still disapproving. It is still a judgement though.