guys, do you ever get this question from escorts?

[funlover12]

"why do you see escorts?"

so, youd prefer If I came and fucked you for free then? ,I think to myself

Its my business why, I dont ask personal questions like this of you so please respect the boundary of the temporary 'relationship' we began. I pay you money, you dont ask deep personal questions

[SmallHorn]

"why do you see escorts?"

so, youd prefer If I came and fucked you for free then? ,I think to myself

Its my business why, I dont ask personal questions like this of you so please respect the boundary of the temporary 'relationship' we began. I pay you money, you dont ask deep personal questions

Haha yes quite regular. Another awkward one.

Or asking if you have a girlfriend....

[Cable87]

I can't specifically recall ever being directly asked 'WHY' I see escorts, but perhaps a bit of general wonder from a few ladies.

I have been asked directly if I am married or have a girlfriend on several occasions. I never had a problem with the question, nor taken any offense to being asked it; I typically assume it's been asked as a matter of polite conversation, although considering the nature of the business, the relationship/marital status of the punter shouldn't really 'matter' to the escort. I am sure that the same question asked of the escort by a client might not be treated as being an 'innocent' or benign question, but as something a bit too personal and invasive. Better that NEITHER side asks certain things of the other, particularly when the two parties haven't met before.

I know that some gents tell all sorts of personal things about themselves to escorts, and that is their right and at their personal discretion to do so. Questions between a punter and escort who have built-up some level of trust between each other and have confided in each other about personal things can be ok, so long as questions have been built upon and are based on information that has been freely volunteered by one side. But probing personal information from a person you have only met recently might be seen as crossing a line. by some.

[funlover12]

I can't specifically recall ever being directly asked 'WHY' I see escorts, but perhaps a bit of general wonder from a few ladies.

I have been asked directly if I am married or have a girlfriend on several occasions. I never had a problem with the question, nor taken any offense to being asked it; I typically assume it's been asked as a matter of polite conversation, although considering the nature of the business, the relationship/marital status of the punter shouldn't really 'matter' to the escort. I am sure that the same question asked of the escort by a client might not be treated as being an 'innocent' or benign question, but as something a bit too personal and invasive. Better that NEITHER side asks certain things of the other, particularly when the two parties haven't met before.

I know that some gents tell all sorts of personal things about themselves to escorts, and that is their right and at their personal discretion to do so. Questions between a punter and escort who have built-up some level of trust between each other and have confided in each other about personal things can be ok, so long as questions have been built upon and are based on information that has been freely volunteered by one side. But probing personal information from a person you have only met recently might be seen as crossing a line. by some.

thats what I mean, its the double standard thing, among others, like you say (inferred) respect the boundaries for both parties

[tom sand]

I get are you married do you have a girl friend a lot of the time

[dan8808]

Haha yes quite regular. Another awkward one.

Or asking if you have a girlfriend....

The two questions i am always asked along with you could get girls for free in the club.

[Danny2011]

"why do you see escorts?"

so, youd prefer If I came and fucked you for free then? ,I think to myself

Its my business why, I dont ask personal questions like this of you so please respect the boundary of the temporary 'relationship' we began. I pay you money, you dont ask deep personal questions

No never but does it need to be taken as deep and personal, wouldn't "Because I love meeting beautiful women like you" be a simple answer.

[Danny2011]

I find the "So what do you like" question awkward though

I prefer more of a natural flow to things

[BBC]

I find the "So what do you like" question awkward though

I prefer more of a natural flow to things

Spot on.
Its meant in a good way but for me it ruins the atmosphere.

Having this said, many guys seem to like being asked.

[funlover12]

I find the "So what do you like" question awkward though


I prefer more of a natural flow to things

Spot on.
Its meant in a good way but for me it ruins the atmosphere.

Having this said, many guys seem to like being asked.

ditto, ill direct you to what I like if thats the way you want to go, dont ask me ffs

or maybe its meant in a "Im taking mental notes now so that I know what to do/you like a bit later " sort of way. well ladies? is that why you ask? to make it seem more flowing later on?