Banter all aside and my rant over, I totally get both where you and some clients are coming from, believe me
I could write a few books on the stories clients have told me from their point of view when visiting working girls however like in all types of lifestyle no one is the same or runs their business the same way either.
First, personally I never or would never ask a client to send me a photo even though “without” asking a few clients have done so, but as I said to them. Don’t do it as they would not put a photo of themselves on an escort site, but the other person asking could very well do so or even use it for blackmailing.
Any genuine client who intends to be on time who don’t wish to be seen as time wasters or to be left standing due to double booking girls do because there are so many time wasters and safety issue to think about. Most are willing to pay a deductible deposit as he has nothing to lose apart from 20 euros if a girls is a scammer, it’s also best to find out beforehand and loss 20 euros then 100 or 200 euros for some crap appointment by a scammer.
Also no it’s not a perfect system for either party as I have a client in Kerry and shared lots of sensual fun times together over the past two year, he had no qualms on always paying the booking fee then one day he asked me to stay in a city an extra day as he was coming up for work, I let him off the deposit and I paid for the extra day at the hotel. But as he was a no show which cost me 80 euros. Not even a fecking phone call, nothing until about 2 weeks later asking me for a booking, this was probably over 8 months ago and still he keeps calling me to make a booking which I refuse, so a loss, loss situation on both sides.
Yes I have also not been able to keep two of my appointment in the past due to I’ve had to travel home because of a family emergency however I have always contacted the client to let him know but if a when a client has made the effort to pay the deposit and depending on the time I have had to depart, I have either returned their deposit or given him an extra 15 mins which is 50 euros (not that I do 15 mins). But most will just tell me to forget the deposit and send their best wishes. I keep record of that person and will give them the extra time the next time he contacts me and are well happy about with that at the time.
Not everyone is a scammer and believe me since coming back to Ireland I have been scammed more times here in less than 18 months then in beep beep years I spend in London.
So where does it all end you ask. Well we are all old enough on this site to make an informed decision on such matters. And unlike some who say “oh no I would never double book honey” and give the impression they are just hanging about waiting one or two hours after the time wasters have fu*ked them over. Loll.
I feel it’s best to be honest and tell the truth.
Yes I will keep the agreed appointment time for you but if someone calls for the same time and pays me the deductible deposit I’m giving them that appointment but if they are a no show I will still be able to see you.
All the best
Lady Von Teese