mmm. dont get me wrong discussion good thing but it seems more interest in asking why I would be suspicious (as opposed to answering the actual question asked)
I can't elaborate on the girl that spooked me...in fact she may not be a customer of EI....normally im careful but cool, taking that measured risk as you put it but a few things came together that started me questioning it all...including the most recent published professional statistics that I previously mentioned...and it is a shocker esp in the tg category...the bottom line is it isn't really a measured risk as you can't measure it can you?? Like if I could point my iPhone at her and run my stdchecker app, sure I guess I'd know there and then! right now I only have a balance of probability to work from. A visit to the STI clinic is point in time - clean results of that only proves that it was clean at that time not 3 weeks and 15 clients (or social play) later....
Look don't aim to kill anyone's buzz sorry if I have