Escorts - who needs them ?

[mark624]

Me!
I found that the reply is obvious withinthis site

[HairyPotter]

I kind of see where you are coming from but TBH I am delighted I took the plunge and saw my first escort — I had been thinking about it for a very long time but now I am delighted I did.

Good ,, but you know what I mean, if you are in a relationship and had previously visited escorts then you have a bust up or something else happened or a real hottie you like is in your area you just go.
Maybe you were looking for an excuse all along to visit that escorts again, difficult habit to break for some even when things are going well.
For those that never visited or don't know what its like its easy for them, what you never had/experienced you never missed and all that

[borkeman]

Meeting a new escort is aprehensive but less so with one a "regular"?

[circumcised guy]

Well i do for diffident and i think i'm becoming more addicted to them but i think i could have a worse addiction

[HairyPotter]

Are you into self-flagellation? Why deny yourself the good things in life, it's to short.

That's another way to look at it I suppose

[HairyPotter]

I think imho that everything in life is about your point of view.

People are different, everyone has different way of doing things, reacting to things whether its relationships etc.
People will deal with things differently and some unfortunately can not deal with it at all.
We just have to make the best of it but now I started I can't visualise myself not seeing an escort again.

[funlover12]

eveniing kids

[funlover12]

ofcourse we can but the wife asks questions when the Friday night scrubber sends me a text in the middle of the night.

bingo, escorts are the definition of NSA sex....unlike bunny boilers
the thing we pay most for is the discretion.

[trucker]

Going out to a bar to pick up some young wan is all well and good, but it's too haphazard. You may get lucky, you may not. You may get too pissed to perform or so may the girl pick up. Apart from that, heading off on the prowl of a Friday or Saturday night isn't necessarily an option for lads with families.

What I get from escorts is an opportunity to experience sex acts that will never be on the menu at home, at a time that suits me and that can fit in to my life, without raising suspicion from the missus. I can satisfy my urges and curiosity, with someone who enjoys those acts, instead of resenting the fact that the missus won't. In the long run, I reckon seeing an escort every now and again has helped my marriage last as long as it has.

[liffey]

Brendan Behan (I think it was) said that there's sex for money and sex for free. The sex for free usually ends up costing more.

For those of us without fame, money or good looks, picking up ladies in the pub or elsewhere is next to impossible. Certainly not in this country.

Punting is not ideal, but it's better than celibacy.