Woman troubles

[meath chap]

Hi all

Looking for some advice and where better than getting some here form all the beautiful ladies on EI . The guys input will also be appreciated .

Just back on the dating scene after a long term relationship. I had been on a few dates with different ladies and one in particular I really liked .

Here is the gist of the dilemma.

"Ok so I met this girl and had a few dates in about 10 days
She lived in a diff town about 40 mins away from me.

1st date : Met for drink (in her town)
2nd date: I brought her for picnic (in her town)
Sent her flowers to her the following day brighten her office
3rd date : She came to my city and I cooked her dinner in my sisters place and my sister disappeared
We went to my house to collect my dogs for walk and she met my mom for about 2 mins
Walked the dogs and dropped them back to my sisters house
The thing was my sister was back home so she met her for 30 mins or so had some wine and we went to cinema
Following say she was cool
Then I asked what I did wrong Sunday
She says "moving too fast , didn't expect to meet my family after 1 week, overwhelmed by it all"

I told her it wasn't intended she meet my family so soon and she replied

""Hey , I'm sorry too but I'm not able for all this, I know you didn't mean to throw me in the deep end but I don't know what to think at the moment"


A few of my female friends told me to reply "No problem" and leave it

What would you do

move on pal,if she was really into you she wouldnt mind

[ana massage]

move on pal,if she was really into you she wouldnt mind

can you really be into someone after 3 dates?

[Irishrover74]

can you really be into someone after 3 dates?

idk. I was but I'm a sap

[Patt113]

Ask her if she would like to meet your granny at the weekend. At least you'll see if she her sense of humour is still intact.

[Irishrover74]

Ask her if she would like to meet your granny at the weekend. At least you'll see if she her sense of humour is still intact.

I did tell her
"hey look on the bright side. You wont have to meet my family again until year... "

[Irishrover74]

holy crap slow the feck down man

one date a week and maybe a bunch of flowers sent (like once)

but why you cook dinner for her in your sisters flat and then go to yours to pickup dogs and bring them to your sisters

you should have dropped the dogs at your sisters before the date and just cooked her dinner at your house

one date a week for the fist month
don't be over egar with texts and phone calls the first few weeks as it makes the lady think your a stalker

Shes the one that asked was i gonna cook dinner for her
Yeah the flowers may have been a bit too soon , and thanks for the 1 date per week guide
I have made sure that I'm not sending texts every day

[Irishrover74]

yes but why cook dinner at your sisters and not your own place ???

Moved back home and couldn't have my mom there

[xcitedcork]

Moved back home and couldn't have my mom there

If your really interested you need to be careful, you will be considered a stalker if you try contacting her too much or if you back off she may have time to think it over.
I would take girlfriends advice and tell her no problem, if you wanted to push it a little bit further suggest that you get in contact again in a few months and if neither have you have met anyone special by then she might try one more date.

Reminds me of comedien line....my girlfriend thinks im a stalker....well she's not exactly my girlfriend yet!

After all that if she pisses you off anymore just send her a sample of a wedding card and ask her if she's sure they should be cancelled

[Meursault]

If your really interested you need to be careful, you will be considered a stalker if you try contacting her too much or if you back off she may have time to think it over.
I would take girlfriends advice and tell her no problem, if you wanted to push it a little bit further suggest that you get in contact again in a few months and if neither have you have met anyone special by then she might try one more date.

Reminds me of comedien line....my girlfriend thinks im a stalker....well she's not exactly my girlfriend yet!

After all that if she pisses you off anymore just send her a sample of a wedding card and ask her if she's sure they should be cancelled

was that bill hicks. very funny

[Irishrover74]

If your really interested you need to be careful, you will be considered a stalker if you try contacting her too much or if you back off she may have time to think it over.
I would take girlfriends advice and tell her no problem, if you wanted to push it a little bit further suggest that you get in contact again in a few months and if neither have you have met anyone special by then she might try one more date.

Reminds me of comedien line....my girlfriend thinks im a stalker....well she's not exactly my girlfriend yet!

After all that if she pisses you off anymore just send her a sample of a wedding card and ask her if she's sure they should be cancelled

Ah yes I was very interested but just leaving things as they are. If she wants another date it's in her court now. We have been chitchatting every few days but that's it.
She know how I feel so I'll leave it at that
That's to all for the advice so far