The Equalizer (23-08-14), xagerate (21-08-14)
Ask why you were stopped.
You only have to give him your name.
if he persists in asking questions, ask for his name, rank, and number.
NoBrain2 (21-08-14)
lildick (21-08-14)
lildick (21-08-14)
Once something bad happens, it is difficult to overcome the fear and I understand your concern.
Words are easy.
What you need to do is to reduce the "fear" /(which gets worse everytime you think and relive the incident).. The fear of this become public is making it even more scary..
Focus on the pleasure and fun aspect of a date rather than the the incident.
To reduce this, maybe you can start with something a little less stressful, eg do a date in another country...
This way the "potential consequence is reduced
Then as has been suggest, try an outcall to a hotel in a different city...
Hope this gives you something you can work with...
Otherwise it may just be you have outgrown your hobby and the event was your moment of ephinany...
Good luck and all the best
Ok.. first of all.. relax... It is not illegal to visit an escort. It is also not illegal to be found on in a premises where more than one escort is working, its illegal for them, not you. So you have NOTHING to fear from the Gardaí.
It sounds to me that you were unfortunate to have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, as in, visiting a premises the Gardaí were actively watching for whatever reason. They know they have no case if you were just visiting an escort... the reason they followed you and pulled you in was they suspected you were a pimp and had just called in to collect the earnings from your girls.... cos if you were... now they may have further "icing" on their case to compliment the brothel bust, cos they have caught the pimp as well... makes them look better in court.... As an honest punter John you are worthless... They were more than likely more pissed off that you actually were said "honest John", than you were at being pulled.
Buddy... You need paranoia therapy... Here's what you need to do...
Pick an independent & established escort and make a booking. On your way there, call your local Garda station and tell them what you are about to do and where you are about to do it. On approaching the entrance to your beauty's apartment put your phone on speaker as she calls out the keycode so all passer-by's can hear it... go in and have wonderful sex with the girl of your dreams. As you exit, stop the first person you see and point out to them that you have done nothing illegal.... with a skip to your step pop in to your local for a well deserved pint and happily smell her perfume as you take each sip..... Keep repeating to yourself ... "Its good to be the king.."
You'll be grand...
Me4711 (22-08-14), NoBrain2 (22-08-14), Smiley Miley (22-08-14), Toolbox (23-08-14)
If I were you, I'd get in touch with one of my regulars and tell her what has happened. Work out a plan to meet with her before the appointment in a coffee shop and then back to your hotel room for an outcall.
Life is a journey, complete it.