tbh, they just seem desperate for a decent man. I've already mentioned the chronic shortage of partners but also within the Ukraine large sections of the men who are available aren't of a hugely desirable nature. Low wage earners, obesity problems, high alcohol problems. Add to that the many problems within the country which mean most of the women would jump at the chance to get out of the country. Maybe not Romeo and Juliet stuff but I know of relationships built on far far less.