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    Default Why do you visit escorts?

    Apologies if this has either been done to death or is in the wrong section.

    For me, I've started visiting them because I'm in my late 20's and have never had a girlfriend. I've love shyness (for those who don't know http://www.love-shy.com/faq).

    In the last while, it had started to eat away at me that I'm soon to be 30 and have never been with a woman. I felt an utter failure and led to depression. In light of the death of Robin Williams, something snapped inside me and made me realise life is too short and that I had to know what it was like.

    It's an incredible feeling, being with a beautiful woman. And one I want to experience again and again.

    I don't think the depression will ever lift permanently, but at least I no longer feel a failure.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZVN60 View Post
    Apologies if this has either been done to death or is in the wrong section.

    For me, I've started visiting them because I'm in my late 20's and have never had a girlfriend. I've love shyness (for those who don't know http://www.love-shy.com/faq).

    In the last while, it had started to eat away at me that I'm soon to be 30 and have never been with a woman. I felt an utter failure and led to depression. In light of the death of Robin Williams, something snapped inside me and made me realise life is too short and that I had to know what it was like.

    It's an incredible feeling, being with a beautiful woman. And one I want to experience again and again.

    I don't think the depression will ever lift permanently, but at least I no longer feel a failure.
    Love shyness is just a term that was conceived by an author who wanted to sell a book.

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    ive just looked at the website and it reminds me of ron hubbards scientology thing. No offense man. But i dont buy it

    edit: I know im being a dick and cynical. but this is like the guys who say they can make you a million in three months. They are common in america. Its all money
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    The purpose of an escort visit is to relieve pent up sexual tension . Go in . pay your cash , do the deed and leave .

    An escort is not a therapist or prospective lover or your next best mate . This does not mean you shouldn't be nice kind and respectful but there is a line that's best not crossed .

    But if it helps in improving your overall happiness then go for it .

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    You can believe what you want, but discovering the term helped me no end.

    From the age of 18 to 26 (when I came across the term), I genuinely believed I was defective. And that lead to years of self imposed isolation as well as lack of self worth. But when I found out that others were in the same position, it was the beginning of a process that enabled me to come out of my shell. That knowledge gave me a hell of a confidence boost which enabled me to take on a better job than the shitty retail work I thought I'd be in for the rest of my life.

    Sure, I still have my moments, but don't we all.

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    You can believe what you want, but discovering the term helped me no end.
    hence why the guy sold lots of books. Because there is a market for it. Go on any porn website and you will see ads for pills that can make your dick bigger. Now why are they there? Because men buy the pills hoping to make their dicks bigger. This is a market for men who are frustrated by their lack of foray in the attracting-women-game and in their desperation, they do desperate things.

    From the age of 18 to 26 (when I came across the term), I genuinely believed I was defective. And that lead to years of self imposed isolation as well as lack of self worth.
    I remember a guy recently had the same problem. hed go out every saturday night with his mates and they would all pull women and he didnt and he would beat himself up over it. You see what he was doing, was basing his self esteem on how popular he was with the ladies and henceforth if he wasnt popular with the ladies, his esteem took a nose dive into the abyss Nietzsche made famous. So what do you do? You break away from the popularity contest of basing your esteem on image and through that you release yourself and become more favorable with regards traits.

    You must remember that no man gets every woman, despite his status. But if you are trying desperately to get a woman, you wont. So what you do is be yourself and then you may just find someone.

    But when I found out that others were in the same position, it was the beginning of a process that enabled me to come out of my shell. That knowledge gave me a hell of a confidence boost which enabled me to take on a better job than the shitty retail work I thought I'd be in for the rest of my life.
    Again this is the problem. You are looking at others and saying the most in demand guy works as a professional and not retail and because you were in retail you internalize anger and beat yourself up. Now if you dont give yourself a chance, no one else will. If you cant love yourself for what you are, no one else will either. So what you do is accept yourself for what you are and be happy to be alive, and dont get involved in this petty rat race of materialism. Be happy and you will find a nice woman and bla bla bla. But that wont happen as long as you keep involving yourself in psychological contests of looking well for others.

    Sure, I still have my moments, but don't we all.
    Yea no doubt. But i find that if you stand apart from others and just appreciate your existence in an incredibly harsh universe, you may just enjoy life better and others then can enjoy it with you.

    It pains me to see the amount of men who get depressed over not being the top dog. There is more to life than pulling women

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    You should use the confidence you get from visiting a beautiful woman , use it to help you go out and talk to single girls and maybe u will meet someone to make you happy .

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    I visit Escorts because I'm too damn ugly to get a girlfriend.

    Finally got tired of waiting to have a sex life through dating etc. (never going to happen) so I decided to go out and buy one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Klittyliker View Post
    I visit Escorts because I'm too damn ugly to get a girlfriend.

    Finally got tired of waiting to have a sex life through dating etc. (never going to happen) so I decided to go out and buy one.
    mike tyson once said that he had opponents beaten before the bell even rang. My point is that if your already beaten before you go out, you dont have a chance. Think positively

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    Well to be brutally honest i visit them because i could never pull some of the worldys thats on here

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