Apologies if this has either been done to death or is in the wrong section.
For me, I've started visiting them because I'm in my late 20's and have never had a girlfriend. I've love shyness (for those who don't know http://www.love-shy.com/faq).
In the last while, it had started to eat away at me that I'm soon to be 30 and have never been with a woman. I felt an utter failure and led to depression. In light of the death of Robin Williams, something snapped inside me and made me realise life is too short and that I had to know what it was like.
It's an incredible feeling, being with a beautiful woman. And one I want to experience again and again.
I don't think the depression will ever lift permanently, but at least I no longer feel a failure.