Wife wont change her ways....

[brian2509]

at least i still the ei girls to call to to help me out.

if the wife doesnt want to change things, il keep seeing my favour ladies on here!!

if she changed her idea's id have a bit more money to spend on her......

[Clyde]

My wife just wont go down on me at all and thinks anything outside of the missionary position is wrong. wearing sexy lingerie is a no go with her, the woman wouldnt know a thong if i had one in front of her face..

I do everything for her and for our sex life. I go down on her at any oppurtunity i can get, i am the the person that has to make the first move to get things going and do al the work.

If i am on top, i have to do the work. if the wife is on top i have to do the thrusting while she just lies on me. If my hands wander down to her ass she tells to stop it. Thats a dirty place to go...

Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

i think this is the reason i go call to so many escorts, just for the pleasure of good sex and the chance to try alot of different things and positions.

i am not trying to convert my wife into acting like an escort when i am with her, just want her to adds um extra fun in our sex life!!

what do people think? any advice?

If you love your wife and she loves you thats the most important thing, try explain to her your frustration. Now after 12 years you and only you, can know how to handle the conversation. Good luck with it mate in the mean time enjoy the fun times with the lovely ladies and gain the confidence.

[samlad]

[Playitsam]

Try to change your expectations of your wife . If you are the one who always initiates the physical side of the marriage then give it a miss for a while . Appear to reduce your desire for her and reduce your physical contact . See at what point it's noticed . See at what point if ever she initiates the sex act .

Then you will know how she is realy feeling about sex and physical affection . May sound cruel , but it tells a lot about a persons needs . If she notices and comments on the changes just say your are giving she space and don't want to be bothering her as she doesn't Appear to be a willing participant in the sex act . And you would rather not have her doing anything out of a sense of duty .

Worth a try . And if that fails , then you know where to go for some action

[ana massage]

yes coz only irish women dis like sex lol

maybe try showering been nice to your wife...

you know not always her fault

plus may I add your paying escorts to do things just remember that one

if my husband wouldn't shower i have no reason to keep staying in the relationship.(i am not married by the way )
and i wouldnt even bother starting a relationship with someone that isn't clean

[NoBrain2]

Hire a male escort to show her a good time, let her know what shes been missing

[Baxter]

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Can not help wondering what would happen if you suggested Role play and offered her £150 for an hour of naughty...lol please, if you do, report back even via pm, practical I may be but also cheeky.

I used to hear of guys doing that and thought it all sounded a bit of innocent fun. Now, I think it probably originated from the guys have previously punted. I think for a punter, who might in retrospect have some trail( however small ) of suspicious behaviour, this sort of offer of role play might have some rather unpleasant and unforeseen consequences !

[Baxter]

Mmm would not have thought of that.
Before offering watch Wolf of Wall street, or maybe not, bit rough if not into saucy films.
Ok scratch the Role play.

Ha, will do.Did you enjoy it ? Would most women enjoy it, do you think ?

If a client were to role play the escort thing, he just might be very good or TOO good at it for his own liking !

[Baxter]

A very educational film for Escorts, maybe for some civvy woman a little rough when I think about it.
I really enjoyed it.

Imagine wife being too good at Escort Role Play, men should read problem pages in womans magazines, I am sure most men have no idea how many wifes find sex too boring and cant be bothered.

Why do they find it too boring ? Surely, its up to her to spice it up , as much as it is to the hubby.Also, they need to be able to achieve orgasm much quicker ( and in many cases, at all ) . Why drag the whole thing out ??

[Baxter]

Would need to chat to each wife separately about that.

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There's the nub of the problem. Women find the whole thing so complicated. Its not. Just look fab and wear killer heels ( and no underwear ) !