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    My wife just wont go down on me at all and thinks anything outside of the missionary position is wrong. wearing sexy lingerie is a no go with her, the woman wouldnt know a thong if i had one in front of her face..

    I do everything for her and for our sex life. I go down on her at any oppurtunity i can get, i am the the person that has to make the first move to get things going and do al the work.

    If i am on top, i have to do the work. if the wife is on top i have to do the thrusting while she just lies on me. If my hands wander down to her ass she tells to stop it. Thats a dirty place to go...

    Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

    i think this is the reason i go call to so many escorts, just for the pleasure of good sex and the chance to try alot of different things and positions.

    i am not trying to convert my wife into acting like an escort when i am with her, just want her to adds um extra fun in our sex life!!

    what do people think? any advice?

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    Praise her for her good points - she must have some.
    Focus on her needs, and not your own.



    That's enough to be getting on with...
    Last edited by EIFII; 13-08-14 at 08:44.
    Just can't give this mad shit up

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    Sounds like she just doesn't enjoy sex for some reason. Maybe relationship counselling or getting some kind of therapy might work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brian2509 View Post
    My wife just wont go down on me at all and thinks anything outside of the missionary position is wrong. wearing sexy lingerie is a no go with her, the woman wouldnt know a thong if i had one in front of her face..

    I do everything for her and for our sex life. I go down on her at any oppurtunity i can get, i am the the person that has to make the first move to get things going and do al the work.

    If i am on top, i have to do the work. if the wife is on top i have to do the thrusting while she just lies on me. If my hands wander down to her ass she tells to stop it. Thats a dirty place to go...

    Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

    i think this is the reason i go call to so many escorts, just for the pleasure of good sex and the chance to try alot of different things and positions.

    i am not trying to convert my wife into acting like an escort when i am with her, just want her to adds um extra fun in our sex life!!

    what do people think? any advice?
    Evidently she allows a little more than just missionary? Having said that this seems to be the way of many Irish women.

    I was chatting to an escort who I get on very well with recently and she told me not to marry an Irish girl as all the married men that come to her all say the same thing about their Irish wives, that they are just not into sex!

    Personally I do not believe for one minute that all Irish women are like that but it would seem a lot are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Petros View Post
    Evidently she allows a little more than just missionary? Having said that this seems to be the way of many Irish women.

    I was chatting to an escort who I get on very well with recently and she told me not to marry an Irish girl as all the married men that come to her all say the same thing about their Irish wives, that they are just not into sex!

    Personally I do not believe for one minute that all Irish women are like that but it would seem a lot are.
    It would seem the wives of many men on here are not into sex. I spot a link...
    Just can't give this mad shit up

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    I've said it many times here. my wife won't suck my mickey and hence the reason i visit the ladies . she's a deadly cook (makes a scrummy carrot cake ) and she keeps herself looking well though so hey . 2 out of 3 ain't bad.

    Quote Originally Posted by brian2509 View Post
    My wife just wont go down on me at all and thinks anything outside of the missionary position is wrong. wearing sexy lingerie is a no go with her, the woman wouldnt know a thong if i had one in front of her face..

    I do everything for her and for our sex life. I go down on her at any oppurtunity i can get, i am the the person that has to make the first move to get things going and do al the work.

    If i am on top, i have to do the work. if the wife is on top i have to do the thrusting while she just lies on me. If my hands wander down to her ass she tells to stop it. Thats a dirty place to go...

    Here's how bad she is in this department - we are together 12years, and only 3 years ago she realised i was circumcised when i told her. she didnt even know i was. is this right?

    i think this is the reason i go call to so many escorts, just for the pleasure of good sex and the chance to try alot of different things and positions.

    i am not trying to convert my wife into acting like an escort when i am with her, just want her to adds um extra fun in our sex life!!

    what do people think? any advice?
    Last edited by zilch; 13-08-14 at 09:19.

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    if you want my opinion, you're a fool for marrying her!!

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    Shes great in every other way in the marriage. Maintaing the house, Great with the kids, no to bad in the kitchen but thats not a problem as i am pretty good in the kitchen myself and perfer making the dinner myself.

    its just the bedroom department that i would like to see improvements. Im not saying im great in the bedroom, but im not afraid to change things up abit on different nights. The wife wants it plain and simple every night.

    I am afraid to say it but i know its just the way it is, we are stuck in this routine and i do not ever seeing it change.

    Even if we are watching a film together and a sexy scene comes on, she'll try and distract herself from watching it, maybe go on her fone and starting talking to me...

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    I am always surprised at these sort of posts, and wonder what attracted you to your wife. I assume that there was intimacy prior to marriage, and that would have set a marker for the intensity or lack of same. Like has been suggested maybe you need to get some expert help with this. My reason for visiting escorts is that my partner seems to have a drink problem, and this causes a lot of uncertainty with intimacy, but when it happens its good. My partner is kinky and we have stretched the boundaries etc re fetish wear and such like. So during the lull periods I visit escorts for me and my needs. But prior to marriage we had a good sex life, so maybe that's where the problems began.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brian2509 View Post
    Shes great in every other way in the marriage. Maintaing the house, Great with the kids, no to bad in the kitchen but thats not a problem as i am pretty good in the kitchen myself and perfer making the dinner myself.

    its just the bedroom department that i would like to see improvements. Im not saying im great in the bedroom, but im not afraid to change things up abit on different nights. The wife wants it plain and simple every night.

    I am afraid to say it but i know its just the way it is, we are stuck in this routine and i do not ever seeing it change.

    Even if we are watching a film together and a sexy scene comes on, she'll try and distract herself from watching it, maybe go on her fone and starting talking to me...
    Many guys would consider you lucky...
    Just can't give this mad shit up

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