Will your wife be an escort???

[godeeper]

I have been looking at some of the threads here over the last week or so and have been struck by a couple of themes, viz.
1. Why do women become escorts?
2. Men visit escorts because they do not get ‘it’ at home.
The answer to the first theme is very simple. Women become escorts when their desire for money supersedes the value that they place on themselves. None of these women would be doing it if they were only picking up the minimum wage. On the other hand, most women in the country, not in a relationship with man, woman or god would be doing it if they could be guaranteed anonymity, safety and say €100,000 per hour. The question then remains; why would such beautiful, intelligent women be having sex with all-comers at only €100 a time. The answer is almost invariably that something has gone wrong in their lives to reduce their self-esteem. This is almost always an abusive relationship and sometimes a string of abusive relationships going back to childhood. Being with escorts has always been a bittersweet experience for me. I have had a lot of very great sex with very beautiful women but it has always been touched with a sadness about how much more these women deserve.
Men constantly say on these boards that they only visit escorts because they are not getting ‘it’ at home from their wives. I have no sympathy for these men but I do find it extremely sad that there are so many wives out there in abusive relationships. How can any man deprive a woman of her enjoyment of a sexual relationship? I hope that these wives have the sense to take lovers but women have a capacity to be stupidly faithful. It may come as a surprise to many of these men but women do not get off on having some unwashed drunken git try to stuff a limp dick into them when they are tired and want to sleep. I have never met a woman who did not enjoy sex in some form or other and virtually every woman that I have met can achieve orgasm through oral sex. There should be a law that every man has to lick his wife’s pussy for at least 30 minutes a week!! If a man takes care of his wife you can be sure that she will take care of his dick. I understand that men enjoy a little variety, as I do, but it should not be at the expense of neglecting your wife at home.
The point of all this is that it is these abused wives at home who are the potential sexy, horny escorts of tomorrow.

[Dr. Ivory]

One rarely comes across a philosopher of such subtlety and insight as the original poster on this tread. What use debate in the face of such incisive analysis ?

[wanted the best 69]

some may like it some may not,money can be very good,but tell do people have to have low esteem to do jobs they hate?
if so then that 3/4 of the country f....d

[bettercallsaul]

One rarely comes across a philosopher of such subtlety and insight as the original poster on this tread. What use debate in the face of such incisive analysis ?

Most likely the best reply on the internet ever!!!!

And the best part is it's not an essay so i can read it

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have been looking at some of the threads here over the last week or so and have been struck by a couple of themes, viz.
1. Why do women become escorts?
2. Men visit escorts because they do not get ‘it’ at home.
The answer to the first theme is very simple. Women become escorts when their desire for money supersedes the value that they place on themselves. None of these women would be doing it if they were only picking up the minimum wage. On the other hand, most women in the country, not in a relationship with man, woman or god would be doing it if they could be guaranteed anonymity, safety and say €100,000 per hour. The question then remains; why would such beautiful, intelligent women be having sex with all-comers at only €100 a time. The answer is almost invariably that something has gone wrong in their lives to reduce their self-esteem. This is almost always an abusive relationship and sometimes a string of abusive relationships going back to childhood. Being with escorts has always been a bittersweet experience for me. I have had a lot of very great sex with very beautiful women but it has always been touched with a sadness about how much more these women deserve.
Men constantly say on these boards that they only visit escorts because they are not getting ‘it’ at home from their wives. I have no sympathy for these men but I do find it extremely sad that there are so many wives out there in abusive relationships. How can any man deprive a woman of her enjoyment of a sexual relationship? I hope that these wives have the sense to take lovers but women have a capacity to be stupidly faithful. It may come as a surprise to many of these men but women do not get off on having some unwashed drunken git try to stuff a limp dick into them when they are tired and want to sleep. I have never met a woman who did not enjoy sex in some form or other and virtually every woman that I have met can achieve orgasm through oral sex. There should be a law that every man has to lick his wife’s pussy for at least 30 minutes a week!! If a man takes care of his wife you can be sure that she will take care of his dick. I understand that men enjoy a little variety, as I do, but it should not be at the expense of neglecting your wife at home.
The point of all this is that it is these abused wives at home who are the potential sexy, horny escorts of tomorrow.

Minimum wage? My previous job used to fetch me £150 per day. Is that minimum wage?

Also, self value? I don't get the connection? Money is not more important than me being happy. I am happy in my work and I am not forced financially or in any other way, so how has money become the over riding factor? I guess I must have had no value at all when I was swinging then?

I think you are also forgetting that a lot of these wives have been brain washed through religion and made to believe that sex is bad unless you are making babies. They don't want to be licked out and won't allow it. They also won't give a guy a bj, because that doesn't make babies either and breasts are strictly for babies and not for daddy. You can not force a woman to enjoy a sexual act if she is adamant she doesn't want to do it.

I knew a young couple back in England who were very attracted to each other and after they had sex she would sob and he found it very disconcerting. Apparently she cried because she was brought up Catholic and felt guilty afterwards and hated herself for having had sex out of marriage.

People are very influenced by their upbringing and have fixed ideas as to what is right and what is wrong. Thankfully this is something that is less influential now, so may not be the same in years to come, but there are still many married couples out there who don't have sex, because there is no need for it (allegedly).

Personally I think if there is a God up there, he would be wishing he had not thrown away the manual, that says lubricate at least once a day through manual intervention by pressing buttons A & B (on a lady) and C and D (on a man). Button B to be pressed with caution (g-spot) or while making babies. Button A to be used daily!

[Baxter]

Some Escorts are very young, no hubby etc.
Desire for money or need to not be evicted from home? Thats where I started from but that day is long gone and here I am still naughty.
Too long too hot to answer fully but I am looking forward to ex hubbys face when I tell him his ex wife has been earning £150 an hour to be a very happy very forfulled hooker and very much on my terms.
Not for a while yet but the day will come, not overly concerned with his reaction, I think he knows what a kinky lady I am.
Just seeing his face realising why I am able to pay my bills and not ask him for help.
Power lies in having money and sense.

I doubt if I would ever book you, as I am likely to fall in love!!

I could however attend that meeting with you and your ex to record it for posterity !

[adamski]

I have been looking at some of the threads here over the last week or so and have been struck by a couple of themes, viz.
1. Why do women become escorts?
2. Men visit escorts because they do not get ‘it’ at home.
The answer to the first theme is very simple. Women become escorts when their desire for money supersedes the value that they place on themselves. None of these women would be doing it if they were only picking up the minimum wage. On the other hand, most women in the country, not in a relationship with man, woman or god would be doing it if they could be guaranteed anonymity, safety and say €100,000 per hour. The question then remains; why would such beautiful, intelligent women be having sex with all-comers at only €100 a time. The answer is almost invariably that something has gone wrong in their lives to reduce their self-esteem. This is almost always an abusive relationship and sometimes a string of abusive relationships going back to childhood. Being with escorts has always been a bittersweet experience for me. I have had a lot of very great sex with very beautiful women but it has always been touched with a sadness about how much more these women deserve.
Men constantly say on these boards that they only visit escorts because they are not getting ‘it’ at home from their wives. I have no sympathy for these men but I do find it extremely sad that there are so many wives out there in abusive relationships. How can any man deprive a woman of her enjoyment of a sexual relationship? I hope that these wives have the sense to take lovers but women have a capacity to be stupidly faithful. It may come as a surprise to many of these men but women do not get off on having some unwashed drunken git try to stuff a limp dick into them when they are tired and want to sleep. I have never met a woman who did not enjoy sex in some form or other and virtually every woman that I have met can achieve orgasm through oral sex. There should be a law that every man has to lick his wife’s pussy for at least 30 minutes a week!! If a man takes care of his wife you can be sure that she will take care of his dick. I understand that men enjoy a little variety, as I do, but it should not be at the expense of neglecting your wife at home.
The point of all this is that it is these abused wives at home who are the potential sexy, horny escorts of tomorrow.

I get it at home anytime i want but i like a bit of variety, meeting different new ladies

[godeeper]

I get it at home anytime i want but i like a bit of variety, meeting different new ladies

Good for you and good for your wife.

[godeeper]

Some Escorts are very young, no hubby etc.
Desire for money or need to not be evicted from home? Thats where I started from but that day is long gone and here I am still naughty.
Too long too hot to answer fully but I am looking forward to ex hubbys face when I tell him his ex wife has been earning £150 an hour to be a very happy very forfulled hooker and very much on my terms.
Not for a while yet but the day will come, not overly concerned with his reaction, I think he knows what a kinky lady I am.
Just seeing his face realising why I am able to pay my bills and not ask him for help.
Power lies in having money and sense.

Proof of what I said. Women do not have to be old to have been through relationships that have hurt them.

[godeeper]

Minimum wage? My previous job used to fetch me £150 per day. Is that minimum wage?

Also, self value? I don't get the connection? Money is not more important than me being happy. I am happy in my work and I am not forced financially or in any other way, so how has money become the over riding factor? I guess I must have had no value at all when I was swinging then?

I think you are also forgetting that a lot of these wives have been brain washed through religion and made to believe that sex is bad unless you are making babies. They don't want to be licked out and won't allow it. They also won't give a guy a bj, because that doesn't make babies either and breasts are strictly for babies and not for daddy. You can not force a woman to enjoy a sexual act if she is adamant she doesn't want to do it.

I knew a young couple back in England who were very attracted to each other and after they had sex she would sob and he found it very disconcerting. Apparently she cried because she was brought up Catholic and felt guilty afterwards and hated herself for having had sex out of marriage.

People are very influenced by their upbringing and have fixed ideas as to what is right and what is wrong. Thankfully this is something that is less influential now, so may not be the same in years to come, but there are still many married couples out there who don't have sex, because there is no need for it (allegedly).

Personally I think if there is a God up there, he would be wishing he had not thrown away the manual, that says lubricate at least once a day through manual intervention by pressing buttons A & B (on a lady) and C and D (on a man). Button B to be pressed with caution (g-spot) or while making babies. Button A to be used daily!

You were on £150 a day and you are now on £150 an hour. Most women would choose the £150 a day and enjoy sex with whomsoever they pleased. You chose to go for the £150 an hour with whoever walks in the door. The question is why some women decide to become escorts. My argument is that the difference is down to the different self-worth that they place on themselves and that this stems from past relationships.
Did I not read a post somewhere where you said that you had come out of a dysfunctional marriage where you had deprived your husband of sex? My sincere apologies if I have got the wrong person.